Hey collane,
You know my love also started this way(like yours) to some extent.
We looked each other for 2 years and just hello hi for that period. then one day she told me that she is going to canada and will settell their with her family. I have not spoken with her till that day, but after i get to know that she is leaving i make up my mind and ask her for a date. She refused first but given me her contact number, i call her manny times, whenever we speak, to me it seems like that she like me to some extent but dont love me. but i continue loving her. At last when it was only week left before her departure she told me that she will go on date with me. We met for 2 hour and i told her everything what i have in my mind, but she was again very cool at time. i feel some bad but it was mine fault also, i should have said this thing earlier. It took me more than 2 years to say her that i love her.
ANyway we keep in touch with mails, chat and phone. and in Jan this year we decides that we gonna get married couse she also started loving me.
So what i wanna tell you is that dont feel that he love you or not. your love should not be dependent on his love. You love him couse, youuuuuuuuuu love him and not couse he love you, well if he do then it's very goodddddddd.
So what i think is that keep loving him. Love can change many things.
Love is the most beautiful thing of ths world. Many few people get their love.
So try and do everything do get your love.. Even if u won't get it in last u wont have the regret that u have not tried.
But still i would say that if u have loved him then he will be uers one day..
I may be wrong somewhere couse it is the first time i am giving someone advice over net.. so .........
cheers....