bostonredsock5

Thanks fior the advice, but reading her comments on his page, she talked to him more than she talked to me. I talked with some of my firends and they were like she is just stringing you along just in case. They read the comments about her finding the guy for her on his page, and were like she not into you. I think in the back of my mind I knew something was wrong when the calls and texts just dropped off a ton, but i didnt want to accept it.

Okay I was going out with a girl who i am in love with. For the first few months we talked everynight said I love you saw eachother often even though we live about 100+ miles apart. Well for the past 3 months her action towards me changed, i just figured she was still getting over the fight and all that. Well we both have myspace, and there was a guy who she said was her long time friend, all of a sudden he stes his profile to private, i think nothing of it. Well as the time went on she call me less and less we hung out less and less, but when we did talk she told me how much she loved me and was like am i the only girl in your life, which she was. Well lately i was having feelings soimething might be going on with her and this guy, so I had a friend act like she knew the guy and add her as his friend, and she said she was posting comments about how she knew in her heart he was her soulmate and one and only, and theres pics of them toghter at parties. It just devestated me cause I really was in love with her, and only to find out she was cheating on me. She doesnt know I know and I dont know what to do. Sorry to write my life story here but any advice would be great

I agree with everyone, you have to be pro active go out and try and find some one you first like to hang out with then see where it goes from there. As far as meeting some one when you least expect it, I figured I give Eharmony a shot, and put my AIM screenname up there so some one would contact me. Well a few months later I had forgotten about every singin up I get an Inst message from my current girlfriend. We clicked from the first time we talked, and it was great. I wouldnt worry about being single forever you will find some one that makes you happy.

Thanks for all the great advice everyone. My sister kind of said the same things as some of you, it would be weird to met most of her family at a Funeral. Also, i wasnt specific enough, we talked before but maybe once or twice a week, we didnt go out for weeks is what i meant to say. Im gonna wait til later next week and see how things rae i guess. Also, while it may be corny we did exchange promise rings Thats awesome, too bad we had just a bad end to the season. Hopefully 07 will be better

I've been going out with this girl since June, and the first 2 months were great we talked all the time told each other we loved each other. Then we had a fight mid August, and while the relationship is okay it isnt good or even great I dont think. We went days without talking and dont do anything toghther for weeks. We do live 80 miles apart, but still. She has told me the other day she loves me and I mean alot to her. However the past few days have made me question that. Her Grandmother passed away, and I told her I would be there for her, I sent her a sympathy card, as well as Flowers to the Funeral home. However she told me not to come to the wake or Funeral, but also said her sisters boyfriend was at the wake today. She also posted a bulletin on myspace telling everyone where and when the wake and Funeral were. People have told me this is not a good sign for me. Any thoughts on this would be a big help, thanks