JayJayBee

so kind of like playing hard to get?

So you think I should just keep doing what im doing and eventually he'll come around?

Okay so theres this guy i really REALLY like, and he really likes me back... and I want to be with him so bad. But a while ago he had his heart broken horribly and he was so devestated. and now he's kinda giving up on relationships for a while. We really want to be with eachother though. He just doesnt want to commit cause he's just afraid that something might go wrong again, but i know in my heart that I would never EVER hurt him or treat him like his last girlfriend did. I just don't know how to go about telling him that im here for him no matter what and he can trust me with anything. I just want us to be together and have him not worrying. Cause he means an awful lot to me...and i never want to lose him. So any ideas how i should tell or show him that he can trust me with his heart and i wont ever break it?...cause I know for a fact i would never. thanks

Well..her family didnt go...Just her. if that helps..

I know. That also upsetted me a little. I don't really know his parents ALL that well, but obviously this other girl does, considering they have been friends practically all their life... so maybe it was his parents idea to invite her? ugh I dont know. lmao.

I would definitly smile. But its good you keep eye contact. It shows confidence.

of course anytime. Good luck. Make sure you let us know how it goes! haha

ummm... I would say friends first. Juuust to make sure you really like him in THAT way. Cause me and the guy im with now were friends for the longest time, and we had so many inside jokes and memories and all this good stuff... then when we realized we liked eachother more than friends it was so much easier cause you were already so comfortable with eachother.

i see... well i would just play it cool... and i think if you just talkto him and have a decent convo, you're not pushing too hard...

...and yes that made perfect sense. haha.

How long have you known him for??

Hey Well in my opinion, if theres so many girls who want him...Id just say get yourself noticed first. But also dont be like all over him like all the other girls, cause you wanna be different and stand out. Trust me he will notice you more this way. Just be cool about it. Cause remember boys always want what they can't have ...always worked for me.

I would definitly say piercings are a turn on... Im a sucker for all the mohawks, tattoos, and piercings..the whole "bad boy" image. Its just my cup o tea

Yeah dogheadma... you're really right. I think i would have been okay with the fact of her just going considering that they have known eatchother for a long time...but that he lied, thats the thing...

rose... ummm, well they have known eachother since they were two. and thier families are pretty close, but they arent related in anyway...