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weird situation....theres this superhot girl that works infront of where i work in the mall....she told one of my co-workers she thinks im hot so my co-worker gave her my number and also got hers so that i could call her that night.....i planned on calling her the next day but she called me and we talk for like 3 minutes and i was kinda busy so she said shell let me go and to call her the next day.....the next day i call her and she dont answer, then she calls me back and i dont answer cause im at work, so i send her a text and she tells me to all her back later....so i call her when i get out of work and she doesnt answer and doesnt call me back.....now its sunday, should i call her or what? i really wanna set up a date with her for like 3 days from now

i find myself to be a starrer....and sometimes girls usually stare back at me.....lol but i usually look away when they do.......lately though ive tried to hold the stare but dont know what to do next.....should i wink? should i smile....if they are close in proximity should i say hi?

this is to all girls face wise wat do most girls look for?what kind of hair style is in style? what about facial hair?....how important is a clean face from acne/scars?........what about height wise..how short is too short..........body wise how important are nice arms, nice abs and not being fat.......what about how to dress, what kind of jeans do girls like, shoes, shorts, like that..........personality wise what things do girls like???.... thank you ladies

ok so lets just say im very cocky when it comes to myself, but im super shy when it comes to talking to girls and making a move...........i consider myself a good looking guy, with a model body(im a lil short though 5'8).....anyways i notice that sometimes girls stare at me profusely, or actually come and say whats up.......and ive been starting to get a lot of attention from girls that would never talk to me back in highschool....i wanna know some good ways to discreetly flirt with a girl, and later on get her number or her myspace or whatever.....what do yall recomend?

well im having problem with coming up to girls not my personality which has to do with something after u have already met a girl ......

.....i got a couple Q's for a player like urself so if u got time to read this and answer them then thanks.....well yea im a somewhat goodlooking guy, 5'9, 160 9% bodyfat and ive been lifting for like 3 years so im pretty set body wise....my face is also worthy of a females attention except for some breakouts of acne and scars that they have left from since puberty.....well anyways all my life girls have been the ones following me, asking me out, and whenever i go to clubs i have ALWAYS been asked by atleast 1 girl to dance.....so basically i have never asked a girl to dance at a club or gotten a number in public on my own ever either because of fear of getting rejection, and also because i honestly dont have ANY experience with picking up girls and doing that sort of stuff....i know im the man, but i still dont have that kind of confidence to approach girls....even when a girl is starring back at me like eye * * * *ing me styles, i still dont do anything about it and rather wait for her to approach me when they often dont end up doing that........so basically i was hoping u could give me some advice on how improve all this * * * *....i basically see girls everywhere....i go to clubs, party alot, hooka bars, groceries, the gym, and i work for a vitamin store in a mall so i always see lots of hot girls but cant do anything about it..........yo if u got any words of adivce id greatly appreciate it...thanks

i have very very bad social skills with girls, but with a guy i can usually talk about whatever even if hes a stranger.......usually in the past when i went to clubs i would just stand there and stare at a girl i like and since im actually a good looking guy, they would come and ask me to dance most of the time........but this doesnt ALWAYS happen so i want to know how do i approach a girl at a club.........btw i work at a vitamin store so i deal with people every single day so i dont know why i have nroe real social skills...........any tips also on coming up to girls in any situation.......maybe like in the mall....or while working.....or like ur in the car and a cute girl is next to you.......or maybe u get introduced to a friend of your friend's.........

alright guys this is my problem..... ok well i went out with this beautiful chick for about 2 months...then she told me she didnt want a relationship...but i said we both liked each other and we should just date for now.....so she agreed...we kept going out..., i made one mistake which was that i never made the move on her(kiss her)....i mean we always held hands, hugged and stuff but i never kissed her....so then she tells me we should just be friends cause she had lost interest in me(shes a very honest girl)well anyways we were friends for like 3 months and so i decided i would try to conquer her again....so i went on my friends AIM whom she also talks to and we chatted but her thinking im my friend...so i asked her if she would give me another chance and she said she prob would and i asked her if she would let me kiss her and she said if i had the balls to do it she would...lol well supposidly this is my friend talking to her....anyways the next day i have this new hope and we start chatting on the phone and i ask her if she would gimme another chance at it...she said she would think about it and the next day she told me it was too late for me to try cause she had lost most of her interest in me.....well nonetheless she begged me to stay friends(she means it) and i tell her i had to get over her first so that i didnt wanna talk to her for atleast a couple weeks(btw we had talked EVERYDAY prior to this since we met either by phone or txt or online).......anyways i was pretty sad so i went out and partied and in 1 week and a half i hook up with 2 girls....well with all the partying and * * * * i was pretty sure i had forgotten her....so i txted her telling her i was ready to be friends now and she was elated......well when she found out about my hookups she was kinda jealous and sad at the same time because she thought i was some player now and that i had changed....well anyways weve been "friends" for the last month or so and i have really grown to care for her a lot as a friend because we talk every single day for hours...anyways a couple says ago she made the mistake of giving me that little shred of hope....she told me that for that one week we didnt talk that she was very sad and missed me and she realized then that she actually liked me.....she also said that "its hard to find a guy with ur looks and personality" lol which i thought was nice...well anyways lets just say my interest in her is starting to come up again but i dont wanna tell her about because i dont want to risk our friendship this time...what do i do? i am talking to 2 other chicks but i cant even start liking them because i kinda still like this girl....and also i was thinking about how i would feel if she ever dated someone and i would be pissed because she lied to me that she didnt want a relationship and also cause shes with a guy obviously....but i think the only thing i can do is find a girl thats better than her thats the only way i think ill forget her......lol but i wont lie to u...my dream is for me and this girl to be friends for a long time...and then she dates a bunch of guys and realizes that the right guy has been infront all this time(me) and we live happily ever after...lol hope that happens..what do u guys think i should do?

well shes romanian....um she likes going to church...um she likes tv....

ok well me and my ex became good friends and weve been friends for like 3 months....well she was the one that dropped me and put me into friendzone which i accepted cause i didnt care, even though i still have very little interest in her....ANYWAYS xmas is coming up and we agreed to get each other something around the 40 dollar range....what kind of stuff can i get her?

well the thing is she told me she wanted to make a move....and i didnt because i dont know how to(long story)....i mean we have been talking just as much now that we are friends.....how would i go about making a move without her saying ,"dude i thought we were just friends"................btw we kinda broke up twice....the first time she suggested being friends with benefits

ok well i went out with a girl for 2 months....we never made out cause i never made the move....which i know i messed up...but anyways after the 2nd month she told me we should just be friends because she thought we were going nowhere since she didnt want a relationship at the time so theres no point....anyways for the last 3 weeks we have been talking just as much as before but now as "friends"....anyways yesterday told me that one of the reasons she lost interest in me was because i never made a move....well i have a feeling she still wants me...and i was wondering if there is anything i can do to respark the spark we had

thanks will do as soon as i get my camera back...

well here ill tell u two quick stories.... a girl at school came up to me and we talked and i asked her out on a date...so we went out for coffee and we talked and it was all good...then we went out on a second date and i took her to the beach and we ate and then when i got home she txt me asking me what i felt about her....i told her i really liked her so far and hoped to get to know her better....she said the same......but the days after she wouldnt answer my txt, my calls, or my emails ......we havent talked since... this last girl i went out with...well we met at a hooka bar....i didnt have the balls to go talk to her so i gave my friend my number so he can give it to her and the next day she called....well we went out for like 2 months...and we only kissed once...from the beggining she had told me though that she didnt want a relationship for a very long time(years) cause of school but for some reason we continued going....at the end of the 2nd month she told me that it was pointless going out with me cause we would never have anything...i kinda agreed.....she also said that she was losing interest in me because we went out too much(like 3 times a week) and that we tlaked too much(everyday).. i think my problem is that im not confident enough and im very insecure so when i actually meet a girl i like i come as needy and they dont like that........ btw to the girls who responded.....why do u look conceited and coky?....a lot of people tell me thats their first impression of me and also that im a player which all is the exact opposite oh me.....i dont get it..

btw ryan nice hair and nice way to wear ur hats!!! lol