Deputyrandee

It is okay to cry, I believe that it always makes you feel better. But just dont dwell too much in it. Keep yourself busy physically and emotionally, take up a new hobbie, go to the gym, lift weights these are all good ways to channel your anger, frustration and heartbreak. Do not look at anything that reminds you of her such as her myspace account, if you do, prepare yourself to repeat your pain over and over.

As I read your comments it seems that you are reading my mind. I have been on a NC status with my ex for exactly 5 days. Our relationship lasted 6.5 years. He gave me the talk about working on himself, but I recently heard from a friend that he is searching for women on the internet. Initially I believed his story about working on himself as far fetched as it was but now I understand that he just wants to date other women and didnt have the heart to tell me that. But life goes on....This too will pass......