Arch Angel

For me, I would require they speak english and I don't think I would date 'all' nationalities either,and especially people who have a bomb strapped to them.

But thats just me!

Yes I would and I have! Makes no difference with skin color~

If your not working right now she probably has the mind set that you could be doing the household chores being that your home all day so that when she gets off work she doesn't have to do them too.

It sounds like she is at the end of her rope and lacks in the 'positive' communication department. She may be so frusterated with you not volunteering to do what is obvious and, has she said the same thing over and over again to where she is at the point of aggression?

Providing for the family takes both ppl now days, generally, and the home is where you both live thus becoming an equal shared duty.

Try pulling your own weight around and I would certainly tell her to talk to you with respest!

ut oh! I would suggest that she take the MAP too, just to be careful and you can go to your local health Dept. to get STD checked w/o a parent I do believe.

Is she on birth control?

I see you totally missed my point..sorry that I alluded you. LOL, I am not calling you sexist by any stretch of the imagination.

There is someone for everyone and I'm sure there are women out there who like men that think like you. Carry on.

the guys that posted earlier did...like "doing my hardest crying in the car", crying in the shower

The man who said this is a very respected man here on ENA. He is a warm and affectionate man who shows character and strength!

Strenght and power are not shown by muscle strenght when it comes to matters of the heart!

Girls always say they like sensitive guys, but when it comes down to it, who are you going to feel safer and more comfortable with...someone that stands strong or someone that is going to break down and cry when things don't go right?

There is a difference between a sensitive man and a whimpy man! A man who can cry is a man who can show his feelings, ( feelings consist of more than anger and happiness) a man who is whimpy is a man who runs when faced with danger ( heartache is not physical 'danger' it is emotional pain). Essentially you are saying that woman are whimps because they cry!

Women do like sensitive men who will protect them when necessary!

Your right, most ppl join a relationship and want to spend time with each other, not be apart!

I totally agree, she should be making time for you and wanting to be with you!

Seriously, why do you think she would rather be with her friends then with you?

I wouldn't want to be around a man who could not or would not want to cry. It is an expression of pain and hurt.....not weakness! I don't care for cocky, immature jerks either, but thats just me!

I think crying can cleanse the soul of the bottled up pain. You are never too old to cry, it doesn't come with an age limit and it is part of our 'system', we would not be 'equipped' with it if it were not a part of us!

I like it, looks very nice!

I think finding others attractive is very normal even if you are attached. Everyone can appreciate beauty and still be committed.

The 'point' is...everything in between being born until death. Do you have a job? What are your hobbies? Most of us need some sort of excitement in our life to keep the boredom at bay!

If you take your own life you will never know how beautiful your future can be. If your gone you will never find true love, have children, etc.

Life gets hard for everyone at some point but you need to focus on a future!

As long as your clean, numbers only matter to you and the person you are with.

If it were me, I would want to spend as much time with my bf as possible! We all have to give each other space but if a person is allowing friends to take up most of their time then it does became a problem.

If you can't trust her, the relationship will always suffer! If you want this to work the both of you have to come to some agreement about spending time together and ways to build trust. If she is doing something to burn your trust she has to be willing to do what it takes to rebuild it!

thats true anti love, I agree.

I think you need to wait until you are sure he is the one and only when your ready.

Just give it a chance and some time. Hope it all goes uphill from here!

Yes, karma is a real thing. You get what you give. Good luck!

Very creative way of thinking, thanks for sharing that!