boybornbad

I think it does matter that she is only 17 I'm afraid. It sounds like she's not really sure what she wants. She doesn't want a full on relationship but won't let you go. I don't mean to be harsh, but that is just being immature and selfish. You need to get clarification on where you stand. Just ask her to be honest with you, are you a couple or are you not. Otherwise you'll live in limbo, she's having it all her way, and you'll never meet anyone else until you get this sorted. if she suddenly meets someone else are you history? By now she either loves you or she doesn't. A girl knows when she's in love. You have to protect yourself and be strong. You need her to tell you in no uncertain terms what you two are. Maybe you need space to work it out. Make sure her relationship with you is based on love and not need, then you'l know if its worth the risk. Take care and I really hope it works out. Keep me posted.

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