Well , I really need your advice . Theres this really cute guy in my 1st & 2nd period class. I got so excited over him & so I told about 3 friends that I was with at the time , that I thought he was so cute. ONE of them ran up to him in gym class & told him I liked him ( she's the type of person to play around with situations when it doesn't include her but when it does she gets serious , anyways ) . Ever since then he has been acting shy around me & avoids eye contact & whatever . BUT REMEMBER : I didn't say I LIKED him i simply said that I thought he was cute , so there she just started drama.
The next day was basically the same , his shyness & avoiding eye contact whatever. I sometimes stared @ him just because of how cute he was & about two times he actually caught me staring @ him & just gave me a " UHMMM OKAY / what are you looking @...... " look . Then I was talking to one of his friends & he had told me that he doesn't like me & that he actually HATES ME because I follow him around ( which I only did ONCE for like 4 seconds because he was near & it was an attempt to make conversation .. very sad attempt I KNOW ! ) .
Things were like this for the week or so.
TODAY , I seen him & my friend flirting with each other which I didn't really expect too much out of because I convinced myself they were just two friendly people who were just...talking. After that another friend of mine went up to him & asked what he thought about her , he called her sexy & then asked if he liked her he says "what if i do?" . I was so hurt when I heard this because I started to like him a little & I honestly thought that even though he had said to HATE ME ( he never showed it ) we would really become something. But now i feel dead , I feel as if I just don't matter & he doesnt care .
OH YES , & to make things worse, on my way to my last period class I seen him & YES i tried to avoid him but the same girl ( my friend ) who he was flirting with was standing nearby in the hall , he walked up to her & said "can't say hi? " then she goes and hugs him up & then says "hiii" smiling & all . I almost started to cry I just couldn't believe that he could blow me off so hard as if he didn't want a girlfriend or wasn't interested in girls @ that time , but yet be so all hung up on my friend & get so touchy with her WHILE I WAS STANDING RIGHT THERE , YES HE SAW ME HE KNEW I WAS THERE .
Other facts you should know :
- he told his friend I tried to push him down the stairs to get his attention. I WOULD NEVER try to push him down the stairs ! W-T-F ?! I LIKED HIM , WHY WOULD I TRY TO KILL HIM?!
- he thought I liked him wayy before because of the girl that told him I did & so from that time is when he started thinking I was weird , WE WERE OFF TO A BAD START.
- he avoids contact , ignores me when I try to make conversation , doesn't acknowledge my presense AT ALL .
- this girl went up to him & was bothering him constantly about going out with me , talking to me & whatever and he said "NO I DONT WANT TO *beep*ING TALK TO HER " ... this totally sloughtered my chances , he probabbly thinks IM ANNOYING . half of the things people go up to him & tell him are far from the truth ( i never once said i would want to date him )
- the girl that was flirting with him was asked if she liked him , she replyed with an unsure answer kind of like a maybe -- more towards the yes.
So now im asking YOU , what do I do?! Do I just move on ? Should I still try to get him even though my chances don't look too good ? What if they start dating , how should I cope with that ? ANYTHING , people please. Here is a girl in desperate need of YOUR help.