First off before i say anything the mother i am going to describe. nobody. parents and teens alike agree with her they think she is insane!
I am 17 girlfriend is also 17 been dating a year
we want to get married after she turns 18 (you may disagree with this. thats okay but do not discuss it here) we are both very responsible, very mature ,very intelligent people,
her mother is psycho religious(i am christian too but the womans a whacko)
my girlfriend has a 12 year old brother and a 15 year old sister
first off none are allowed to date until 16 (this common for girls but not guys!) secondly they can not go anywhere alone and the girls cannot hang out with a guy without others around
no R Rated movies. or any movies with too much killing or any withcraft magic etc
only christian music
completely shelter from life
cameras in the house. bedchecks. constant invasion of privacy includeing room checks, myspace messages, everything
no halloween, forced to go to curch every wensday and sunday and forced to go to many church events
mom makes up lame excuses like you need rest so she cant do something. but makes her work the same day
thats just home life now our relationship!
not allowed alone anytime, can not go to her house,my house, or a friends house unless parents are there
no single dates only 45 min phone times
disaproves of us careing too much for eachother says things like we are too young, etc (my parents got married at 16 and 17 for no other reason then love)
extreme limit on activeitys like i can go over everyday if her moms there but shes only allowed over once a week
she trys to control them trying to force church college and everything else on them
instead of letting them choose thier future she decides
i was hopeing for advice maybe a site showing her how wrong she is..the kids are unhappy..and no matter what. her mom thinks she is right and we know nothing