jennytheyorkie

LOL, funny how I'm I'm writing here but ok. Some people will tend to be Mr./Mrs. "Know it all types", then they're just average humans capable of making mistakes, ok may be on different things but you're still not perfect. You're right Some_guy282 I asked for no specific help, I'm just stating that one may think she/he knows everything when they don't. As for my ex, I'm not angry about that anymore, he's long forgotten, have no regrets over it. As for my friend, well I just wanted to check a few forums here and I insist she went in here so ok she went in very fast. But yea, she's still bitter about, don't even think she even say hey nor hello on her recent post, which I don't blame her I wouldn't either. I may come here once in a while. She's not gonna come back again, she told she was angry when she was writing here.

I understand it was wrong what she did, but there is a significant difference between a someone that comes here bragging about what he/she's doing and not caring about their actions and someone who's already feeling bad and already states that they mess up that they do feel bad. Repeating exactly what they're already saying, to me it would be like "Oh well you screw, I don't care, that's your problem", leaving them helpless and with no solution. I can imagine, if I wasn't there for her, she wouldn't know what to really say to the other guy and would prollie mess up some more. I'm not even bothering posting here anyways, this was just a general statement, I even told her not to post and that she wans't gonna get any helpful advice. And I was right. She's not really a popular girl, just average. Before, she coudln't really say "NO" and well that's what seem to get her in trouble on some occasions, on different things. As her story with her ex friends, I know it, thought she told me to keep it a secret but oh well, I'll write it here anyways. We were not her friends to begin with, but big time bullies starting in 5th grade or so, mostly teasing her, or threatening to beat her up. It continue until 7th grade where she was told that they would stop the teasing/bullying and be her friends if she bought cigarettes. And well yea, that was that. She would just watch whenever her friends would be bullying other kids, did nothing nor say anything but stand there and like smile. Yea, I know this is so super long, but that'e how it all started.

Spectre Where in my post did I say that there are reasons why people cheat, where?? And like I say before in no way was I advocating it. I wasn't justifying anything and I didn't ask for your comments on whether what I did was bad or good, frankly to be honest I don't care. I stated as it is, as it happened. If don't like what I stated, too bad, it happened and I don't regret it. In fact I'm happy now with the other guy I'm now friends with and yes there is some chemistry going on. Easy fro you to say it when doing it, I did broke up first by the way, but after he tried commiting suicide, I felt I was responsible if that were to happen again. The mother was by his side anyways, so were his other relatives, to them I was considered a trash, useless from like the start. The moment I took him back, not really wanting, at the same time, was thinking that maybe it'll finally settle, but it never did, I never trusted him afterwards and lost total respect. As for people needing to be jugde at times, what exactly are you, a ruler??? So what good will it do let's say someone gets caught stealing something in a store in feels bad. Instead of helping, you just come saying "It was wrong what you did and you're this and that"?? Not very useful or also not helping the person on how to make up for the consequences. They already know the screw up big time, in fact they already saying they make a mistake and you repeating the same thing they're saying is agravating, in fact if I was now posting something that I know I did wrong and tell you that I mess up already and ask for help, and instead you say how bad I mess up, I would already have my comp broken to pieces. Funny, forgot to add, my friend was writing on her laptop, and unfortunately she smash it to the floor and it broke. That's how mad she was.

agent my friend come here for help and she got none or few. Why do you think people post here? They don't come here to be bash nor told sarcastic comments, they are desperate.

Yeah they can but sometimes the temptation is too strong that you get attached and develop feelings.

You know, I'm noticing the ones who were cheated on, they usually seem to be getting helped everywhere and lots of answers. Yet the ones who actually did it and are here asking for help, you give them no help at all, but tell them "Oh you're this and that" or "You got what you deserve". And if I ever were to hear that "Once a cheater" BS, I'll go crazy. No, in no way I'm favoring in, but you people should help that person instead bashing him/her. Now I'm been in both sides and don't get me wrong, I'm no way advocating it. Well see, I was in my first of 3 years, then I found out he made out with another girl, almost had sex with her, but stop there. It doesn't matter, that day I broke up, told him it was over. I know, I know yall wondering why I got back if I didn't want to. Well two days later I get a call from his mother telling me he overdoused and cut himself on the wrist, almost committing suicide. And that was that, I just got back out of pity, but since that I had lost completely respect, in fact that next year was a miserable one. I wanted to just get over it and leave him for good and if I was staying that long it was cuz I feel sad for him, didn't want him commiting suicide. During the mean time I started talking to this wonderful guy. Ok to make story long, we made out of several occasion, just that. Basically didn't love my ex anymore, but didn't know how to tell him w/out him trying to kill or cutting himself again (he was a bipolar type). Until one day I just blow up and told ya straight forward, I couldn't keep hiding the anger. Again he threatened to kill himself if I leave him, so I was like "Fine then, I'm leaving anyways, I can't trust you, never did since you cheated". So I did leave, now I'm friends with that guy, you're not exclusive yet, but there's chemistry. Oh about my ex, heard he's dating again. To be honest I felt no regret when I did it on him and till this day, I don't feel sorry, in fact part of me says he did deserve all that crap. In fact when I did it, I felt happy!!!!!!!!!!!! And by the way, one of my best friend did come here. Her situation was that her friends had dared her to date a guy for like 20 days she doesn't like for money while she's in a relation. Well according to her, she told me you guys were no help at all, some of you keep telling her that she's inconsiderate and had a cold heart. Let me tell you, she didn't wanna do the dare, her friends kept insisting, it was their ideas. She was here for help a while back and she got few. When she told me this, she was mad as heck, so I had to advice her. And off course she's not friends with them anymore and she's still with her b/f who knows nothing about the dare.