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Firstly, I'm quite sure that it's fat and not muscles... unless muscles wobble around like jelly XD (yeah, a positive thing is I make my little friends laugh like hell when they see my tummy, breasts, thighs, etc. wobble around lol ) Under my wrists, fingers, face, cheeks etc. especially the tummy-breasts area. I know they're strata of fat... (is it possible that face muscles change so much and make me look from very thin to round-fat? O_o) Anyway, I actually thought I'm doing too less work out. BTW Note that wherever I wrote "Cardio for 30 minutes, Stretching, push-ups, etc.", it was 30 min cardio + 30 min everything else = 1 hour. Sorry, my fault, I didn't specify it. Of course I do also other things, but I only wanted to give you an idea of when I start working out and eating sessions. Some days (e.g. sunday, after long saturday night) I slept instead of doing exercise. Lunch and dinner, I eat a variety of things, depending on the family menu. I eat what I get, though I have reduced quantities. One dish may be Rice with seafood, another spaghetti and beefsteak, etc. Dessert? Fruits But I'm definitely sure that I'm eating at least 20% less than I used to before starting all this. Thanks for the advice about working out after dinner/equivalent. Didn't understand this; anyway, I thought cardio is warming up.

This is probably unique and anomalous, but before asking the doctor or going to a coach, I'd like to know what you think about it. For most of my lifetime I used to have a normal, fit body with no signs of fat, except maybe a bit in my tummy. I only did very little sports but I really ate a lot - still, I never became fat. It was about 2 years ago (age 17) that I started to do a bit of exercise (cardio, work-out a little) in order to enhance my physical being... and then my tummy started growing! I thought maybe I was doing it the wrong way (maybe not maintaining a correct balance between eating and exercising?) but since I didn't have much time to read books about fitness or following a programme, I simply stopped. After I finished school, though, (a few months ago), I wanted to start again seriously, and I really did hard exercises plus diet... Following is more or less what I'm currently 2 months after finishing school. Note that as I progressed I also grew the exercise power... My day... 8:00 - Wake-up, Cardio for 30 minutes, Stretching, push-ups, etc. 9:00 - Breakfast (fruits e.g. apples) 11:00 - Cycling for 1 hour 12:30 to 13:30 - Lunch 15:00 - Yoga, etc. 15:30 - Snack (fruits) 16:00 - Cardio for 30 minutes, Stretching, push-ups, etc. 20:00 - Dinner after dinner only occasionally - when I had time - I did some cycling and then yoga. I must admit that I felt very much better physically. I mean, stress was fading away, I felt like a child again, I could sleep better... nevertheless: my tummy seemed to get even more fat! And when I looked at the mirror, day after day, the shape of my face was getting rounder, more mounds of fat seemed to be there... I thought it was my immagination. I thought it was just all in my mind. But then I compared photos! I AM becoming fatter! There's fat even under the skin of my wrists... I feel a totally different person (negatively). And my breasts are growing, too (I'm a straight male...) Could someone please explain this phenomenon to me, or propose any solution? Thanks, I'd appreciate it!

Really, folks, thanks for your replies I don't think that I have a problem with looks. I am a person who likes discussion, talking about interesting things in the world - on a scientific basis - and not about which actor married which singer or other things, though I respect anyone who prefers choosing that kind of information. I like to talk about astrophysics, comets, evolution, neurones, brain implants, technology, nature etc. and - as far as I have personally experienced, there are nearly no girls at all who are willing to engage in a conversation dealing with such topics. Typically a girl of my age will talk with me in a flattering, seducing way in the first maximum 2 days she knows me and scroll on to her next target. I also go to clubs, etc. with friends, but always bring a book or a scientific journal with myself or I'll die out of boredom. Sometimes I even write poetry while my friends are on the dancefloor (I like to play concentration games with all the loud music). When I said "back to the books, nerdy" I meant what happens almost always in the club or at parties when a nice girl approaches me. We start introducing ourselves, she does some showing off, talks about this and that and clearly shows that she does it without much passion, fluffs two or three st*pid jokes that I have heard for the N-th time in my life, sometimes pushes a bit forward (but I'm not a fan of one-night-stands), but in most cases leaves for the next friend or the next table, and I go back to reading the books (which are often more interesting than that kind of "experienced" girls, HONESTLY!). Probably, out of "experience", they avoid "immature" guys like me because they don't immediately obtain what they want? As I said, I'd be stimulated only by something serious. A person who knows to passionately listen to you, and does not just pay you 100 compliments just to get you into bed, and thereafter forgets everything she told you. A person with whom I wouldn't have to act. A woman who knows how to discuss, debate, shows no fear to be herself and has more interests than just sex, love and reputation (I said, not ONLY them). The younger girls, in search for new experience, "immature" like me... they simply gave me the impression that they would accept me for who I am... And they would learn from me, with passion. They would learn from me as if I was a point of reference to them. As you said, as if I was their "mentor", their idol, their role model. I was their first experience (or among their firsts)... wouldn't I be able to make a change to the world's eternal stereotypical "hot chicks don't become scientists/hot, blonde chicks are always stupid" (which is sadly also true as I told you from my discotheque experiences) That's what I hoped for. Ok, 13/14 is young, I'll discard them... but there are even 15 and 16 year old girls without much "experience".

Oooooooopppss.... I actually expected the opposite, but apparently it was good for me to ask here.

Hi, I'm a 19 year old guy, who had his head in the clouds and in the books all my teenagehood and now starting to "wake up". As all other girls of my age seem more "experienced" than me, I somehow think that at a level of "love maturity" I'm still at the beginning, meaning: the way I behave and expect love to be is like that of a guy who started all this when he was 13/14. I somehow expect that there can be nothing serious between me and another girl of my age. So, I thought "Back to the books, nerdy!", but I opened my eyes even wider and noticed that other girls are literally trying to eat me. And somehow I find that sweet and - if it were not for social conventions - I would go for it. The problem is: most of these girls are 13-14 years old, and it seems to me they're looking for lot of new "experiences". Personally, I wouldn't even mind - since I'm also still "immature" in love and relationships and may take the opportunity to learn. But I'm not sure. Maybe I should think twice... you know... me 19 (in my country, 19 means being an adult), and those girls 13-14... that's almost 6 years difference. I mean: apart from the question whether it is actually "okay" to go for some experience with them, is it "moral/legal" to do so? That would be a contra. But I feel that there's another "pro" in this. Whenever I speak to younger girls, I, too, feel younger It's nice, very nice! But it isn't anything wrong right? It's nothing illegal, immoral, etc.? And I somehow also foresee that my friends will make a fool of me lol, but people have to start becoming independent from what others think.... or not?