My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months now, before her I had no idea that I was bisexual at all. My family is uber religious and I don't know if I want to tell them or not. I'm pretty sure my parents would die if they knew especially since they are always talking about grandkids. Actually, I don't want to know just yet, cause I am still in college and dependent on them and I don't know how they would react.
But anywho, my girlfriend knows all this, and is always bugging me about telling them. I then tell her I don't feel comfortable enough to tell them and that I don't wanna hurt them by telling them. I did however, tell her that I would tell them after I graduate, but she doesn't believe me. Anywho, she then tells me that if I really loved her and wasn't ashamed that I would tell them. It just makes me feel horrible when she says that, cause I know it isn't true.
Her family has known that she was bisexual since she was 13; however, her family isn't religious at all. She said that her mother just told her as long as she was happy that she was happy. I love her mom, she's the greatest. So, I guess to her telling the parents should be no big deal, but to tell my parents it's a major step in my life.
So, I guess what I am asking is it fair of her to force me into telling my parents even though I don't want to right now. Thanks!
-Crystal
