Azuresky

Wow 3-0 say that it is normal, so I guess it is not a problem. Thanks you guys!!

A female friend told me that her boyfriend likes to sniff/smell his fingers that he used to finger her several times before he washes them. She said she feels weird and awkward. Because She feels that it is not exactly field of flowers down there. She does not have the courage to ask him directly... When she told me bout this, personally, I find it weird too...but hey...I have not had sex yet...how should I know. So what you guys think? Weird or Normal?

Yes, he is still married during those incidents. I wonder if there is any other way to solve this problem without letting know her family.

No judgement please, just advice. She really needs our help. It was about 2 (two) years ago when my friend met him, he was one of her co-worker in her office, he is already married with 2 children. One thing led to another and then they like each other and start going out. Somehow their relationship became gossip among their co-workers, feeling uncomfortable with this, she managed to get a new job, thus move out of that office. As time goes by, and maybe through some enlightment and reaching the age of maturity, she realizes that she cannot stand this any longer and she wants to leave him and return him to his family. However, he refuses to leave her, he threaten her that he will kill himself if she leave him, he even threaten to kill her, the worst part is that he threaten that he will tell her family about what they have done. This girl really respect her family and she does not want to hurt her family, she knows that if her family find out bout this, she will break their heart. So, she will have to stick with him eventhough she does not love him anymore. (she has been like this for almost 6 months) Please give advice...