I am 28 and working,(still trying to get my degree slowly but surely)
well, to get right to the point she broke up with me a few days ago, telling me how she tried to do it before but I just wouldn't listen, I wouldn't take the hints. Well she says that we are different and that it wouldn't work out.
She drops me one of those "you're a really nice guy but I am only 24 and I missed alot of things from life and I want to experiance more"
I love this girl and for some crazy reason even though most of the time she treated me like **** I still think she was the best I ever had , and not sexualy but emotionaly and characterwise etc.
She still wants me to be her friend but I don't think I can handle that, I just can't imagine one night when we're out having fun she hooks up or even flirts with another, it'll just be very harmful to my health emotionaly.
We used to be best frineds for lack of any good friends around here in New Orleans, so the break up is especialy difficult since there are no true friends to fill in the gap, there is no distraction.
What should I do? should I be her friend? I know it will prolly be one of those self inflicting pains, because obviously I still have strong feelings for her. But even as I write this I feel like giving her a call and going out for a drink, and I know she would like that, but still....
To add to that she is supposed to be moving to los angeles this summer so I will eventualy wont have a choice on the matter.
Do I cut her off now or wait to do it cold turkey when she moves?
Do I stay a good friend or take the bitter road and prevent her from having my friendship?
I know for a fact that we will never get back together because I'd be a fool after knowing what I know.
