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  1. This is my second post. My first one was "I feel like I mean nothing to him anymore." Well now there's a new problem. I talked to my ex (who I was with for 4 years), the other day. I had to ask him if he still loves me because I got the feeling that he was just pretending to care for me and love me for teh last couple of weeks. He said that he still loves me and said that I act like he completely forgot about me. And that's exactly how I feel, that he forgot about me and what we went through together in our 4 years together. We had worked through him cheating on me twice and breaking up with me for another girl. And I thought that we had a good thing going. Well when he broke up with me he said "Did you really think that we'd be together forever" and I was speechless. But when I went to get my stuff the next day, he acted like nothing was wrong. And this confused me some more. PLus the fact that his friend's (who I am also friend's with) are almost as confused as I am. And he doesn't talk to them about his feeling and hasn't mentioned me. But when I was at his house he still had my picture's up. When I talked to him the other day and asked him why we broke up, he said that he felt like we were growing apart. What does this mean?? Seriously, that seems like the excuse that everyone uses when they don't want to tell you the truth. Another downfall is that during the time that I was with him, I lost almost all of my friend's. I put the relationship over them and now I feel lost and don't know whta to do. If anyone could give me some advice it would really help a lot. Whst should I do??
  2. The other day my boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me. That morning when I saw him before work, everything was fine. 5 hours later it's over. Here's what happened. A couple of years ago he cheated on me 2 times. I forgave hima nd we moved on. Then about 6 months later he broke up with me for another girl. We got back together a week later. The last 2 years has been great as far as I could see. But a couple of weeks ago I could sense him pulling away. I always have the idea that when something's wrong, he's cheating on me. I can't help it. I was on my lunch break and he called me and told me that he was going to his friend's house. So I decided to drive by. When I drove by, one of the girl's that he cheated on me with was there standing in the drive-way with them. I was mad so I called and argues with him. Then he asked me if I was ever going to drop it. I hung up. When I got off work I went to his house to tlak to him and that's when it happened. he said that he felt we were frowing apart, and then when I asked him again he said "Did you really think that we'd be together forever." It killed me inside. He says he still cares and I still love him, but I don't know what to do. When I went to get my stuff he acted like nothing ever happened. I need your advice please help me. What should I do??
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