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i just don't want to pressure him. he said he needed space so i'm going to hold my guns and wait. it's worth a try. he might want me back before that. and most likely i'll contact him before that too lol!!

thank you, that's helped. i'm just going to wait. i'll give it a month or so then contact him to see how he is and take it from there.

so you think i should just leave him alone for now? how long for? im rubbish at this lol

Well, on new years eve i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. We used a condom and it didn't split which was what i was worried about. I can't say it lasted long as we got interrupted..lol. Well, since im new at this i don't know what i should do. Do i need to see a doctor or anthing? Lol im so inexperienced so any advice would be useful. Thanks.

thanks that's helped a lot

Me and my boyfriend are thinking about having sex. This will be my first time sleeping with someone but his second. I'm a bit worried about what will happen. What i mean is...what should i do if the condom splits or something like that? I don't have much experience or knowledge in this area so any suggestions, hints or tips to what i can do would be greatly appriciated. Thanks

Hi all. Just wondering if anyone could answer this.

Last night, my boyfriend came over to my house. Things got a big hot and heavy. He ended up fingering me (going hard at it..lol). Anyway, after about...10 minutes he stopped. Then all of a sudden he said "oh no your bleeding". This has never happened to me before, kind of embarrassing! Anyone got any ideas why?

Well, i finally got to speak to him. Only after texting him and sending him an email though! He told me that he was an idiot, and is going to try and stop what he's been doing for me. Don't know whether to believe him though, he says it but he could be doing anything!

Just don't worry about it! I was the same up until a few months ago. Normally, when you stop looking for someone, the perfect person turns up! Be happy in yourself, and other people will realise what they are missing!

Way to be strong girl! I hope everything works out for you! I would give you some advice but it seems Shorty20 has given you the best advice anyone can give already. So, good luck!

Lol, thanks! That's if i even get a chance to talk to him! he's "busy"

Thanks Shorty20, that's helped me a lot! It's comforting to know that someone else has gone through this situation! I'm going to speak to my boyfriend about it tonight if i get the chance. Tell him how i feel and say that if he wants to keep me as his girlfriend, he has to change. If not, its over!

Have you spoken too him about this? im assuming that you have if he stopped for a short while. But i'd press your concerns too him and let him know that your not happy about this and your only looking out for him and doing it because you care.

Yep, i've spoken to him about it. He told me that being with me meant more to him than getting high. I don't get to see him often (it's a LDR) so i don't know everything he does. I have to believe everything he tells me as i have no other way of finding out what he has been upto, unless i speak to his friends.

This is how i found out about him getting high the other night, from his friend's post on a different forum. I've not had the chance to confront my boyfriend about this yet, but i'm worried that he will either deny it, or just tell me that i'm being stupid.

Maybe i am being stupid? i mean as he said..it's only a bit of weed. But i just don't like it and i've told him but he obviously hasn't listened to me.

Do you still have feelings for her? If you do then think about getting back together. You should think about the reasons you broke up, and try and put them right.

Hi. You may have read in my other post that me and my boyfriend are currently going through a "rocky stage". One reason for this is that he does weed. The first time i found out he did this, i told him exactly what i thought and he told me that he wouldn't do weed anymore as i mean so much to him and he doesn't want to hurt me. He stuck to that promise for a while (i think).

Today, i found out that the other night, he was out of his head on weed and that he said that he would do it again at other parties he went to.

He knows that i'm unhappy with him doing this but anything i say to him goes in one ear and out of the other. Has anyone got any ideas of what i should do? Thanks

thanks for that. it's helped. i'm meeting up with boy #2 to talk things through. Not had a chance to talk to boy #1 yet though, he's out most nights working or out with friends. wish me luck!

Hi. Im new to the forum but have been reading it for a while and have realised you people are great on giving advice on tricky situations!

Well my situation is kind of long so im sorry if it bores u.

I have a wonderful boyfriend who i love a lot, but its a long distance relationship and i have not saw him for about 3 months. Its hard, but i really like him and want to make it work with him. We haven't really spoke much lately, i guess we both have a lot going on. But when we do speak its great, we get on amazingly well, like best friends and i love him a lot. This is where my predicament begins.

There is a boy in my school, who, to be honest, is a bit weird. I guess its because he's been rejected a lot by most girls and is really harsh on himself. He is a very friendly person though and we get along well together. Yesterday, he told me he likes me. I don't exactly think i like him as more as a friend, but we get on well together. I told him that me and my boyfriend haven't spoke for a while. The boy from my school says i deserve better, and told me to break up with my boyfriend and see how things progress with him (the school boy). I just don't know what to do! I like him but i'm not sure that i like him as more than a friend. And i love my boyfriend to bits but it's hard with him being so far away. I don't want to hurt anyone but i don't know what to do! Anyone got any ideas? They would be greatly appriciated! (sorry for any typos by the way, not very good at typing!) Thanks for reading this!