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Hehe, would just like to thank you all for your advice. I'd just like to say I met him last month and it went pretty well =]

I've just recently spilled out my feelings for a guy I really like, turned out he felt the same way, so he decided to ask me out. The thing is.. even when we're just hanging out together with a few other friends, there is almost no conversation between us. We got to know each other really well by talking online daily for the past few month, but when we meet.. it's completely different. We're quite shy around each other... and it takes some effort for me to get some talking going on. Since we live around 40 minutes apart, he asked me to plan the day because he's coming over. I want the day to be creative.. not the usual, mall.. lunch.. movie, thing. Though I just can't think of anything. I'm also scared that this date will end up with us just looking the other way the whole time. How should I get him to talk and keep a flowing conversation? I know location is also very very importaint for a first date, but it's difficult because of the cold weather now.. we're limited to almost all indoor activities.

^_^ I'll be sure to, I'll take your advice and try calling him tomorrow.. just as a prank call.. see if he really is who he says he is.

hehe thank you guys for your advice. I'm quite sure that he's not a kidnapper or anthing like that, the proof is his website and forum. Hard to imagin some kidnapper paying for a domain and hosting each month just to trick someone. There's a lot more and I could go on forever. We've also talked alot and I do know him pretty well.

I've been talking to a guy I've met on the net for a while now, we first met on a forum of a host. We then discovered that we both owned a graphic site and so we decided to be partner sites. Since his site was very new, I just wanted to help him so we'd end up talking graphics and design everyday until midnight. (He's 16 by the way) After a month we started talking more about our lives than web design, and I think I've gotten to know him really well. He admits that I'm the only one that he's been open about on the net. Lately, he's been acting a bit unusual, and I think he's hinting something.. I don't know for sure if he likes me, but I really do like him. We live about an hour away from each other and he's been using this excuse to get me to visit.. There's a really large mall near his place (largest mall in the province), and I've always wanted to go there. Does he just want to try and be good friends, cause I've helped him so much with the site? Or does he think of me as I think of him? I really do want to meet him, he is truly a nice and sweet guy. But since I'm only 14, I'm not sure how to get to his place with out one of my parents driving me there. Thing is.. my parents would totally freak if they found out. Any help or advice would be appreciated ^_^