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I thank you all for the comments. I wanted to clarify one thing in my original post. I was asking the question to see the responses and a few of them, have said that I have to work on my self-image. I never stated one way or the other whether I did or did not like myself. Well the answer is I do like myself. I am an overwieght bald man. Plain and simple. Would I love to love, sure. Does the fact that I am overweight prevent me from doing what I want or make me loathe myself, NO. I simply wanted to find the women out there that are not ruled by looks alone, but as of you put it, attracted to the inside person, not just the looks. Once again, I thank you all for the posts, keep 'em coming.

Ok ladies, i wanted to find out if there are women that find this attractive: I am 30, basically bald already and overweight? So far I believe the answer to be no, but I want to find out what all of you have to think.

I happened upon this site and this thread, I guess searching to see if there were others that shared my struggle. I have to admit that I share the same situation as the original post. I am 30, getting close to 31 and am a virgin. Only one person in this world knows, my good friend. I am not having the best of luck either in finding quality women out there and my experience through the internet dating has proven time and time again that that may not be the best avenue to pursue. my life is filled with friends, family, work, and I also coach at a high school which takes up my time. I have been told many times that if you look for it, it will not be there, but in time it will happen on its own. I don't know if I trust that philosophy, but I am diligent and will continue to get close to my goal of a rich, fulfilling life with a loving wife and family. Thanks for having this thread...it is nice to know that I am not the only one out there. Blake