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try focusing on you guys relationship, minus the man its her choice whom she date. it should be about you two, if you continue to imput your opinion about the men she date, your going to destroy yalls relationship were as if she did need to confide in you she be hesistate to come to you!

im so sorry this is happening to you. But it seems as she is envy you. Or jealousy. Sometimes its best to let anything thats disturbing your peace not worthy of being in your area. crazy part is she act like she wants you to be jealous of her. trust its not you she hass issues within herself. sorry your been treated that way but its not you!

Hi thanks for the response . We co-lease we been living together alone for 2-1/2 years. after countless times i tried to understand and help i realized this is wrong, i am in a position finacially to support myself im actually looking into breaking my lease and paying the early fee. for peace again iv always been a fun loving happy person and get along well with others and lived a great quality of life to i meet him.

thanks for your response, think hes far gone as well. Its concerning and confusing because i have never had to deal with any one thats a alcoholic, or drug abuse, so everything he does and says is devestating to me. I would like to help and offered but i cant bring my quality of life down anymore.

Hello i been dating a this guy for 5 yrs, first couple of years all was well, he was respectful caring , considerate and loving. Well that is after the 4th year i started noticing increase in drinking, went from the weekends to everyday of the week, it was then i noticed the more he drink he began to be get verbally abusive which lead to big arguments, he became possessive, jealous of anyone im close to family friends. He started going through my personal private information. and what he find he wait to he get drunk and use it aganist me . We live together and he puts cameras up in the home, hack my phone were as he was able to see everything i do on my phone, calling numbers to find out whom it is thats calling. When he drinks he constantantly disrespectful putting me down, criticizing me and name calling. Speaking aganist my family in which im very close to. its gotten to the point he dont listen or care anything about my feelings, needs, or desires. However when hes sober hes a great guy but the problem is he's never sober anymore for the last 2 yrs. I have never experince this i been patient but its to the point now were i cant stand to be around him, because of his negative behavior. Its called so much confusion in my life that im now dealing with depression again. I hardley ever socialize or hang out with friends or family anymore. However i am in the process of getting way from him, and he acts like he did nothing wrong. Should i leave without letting him know, or try speaking to him for the 100th time about this situation. cause he deflects alot.