Sihana

It is exactly this.

Well, I would like to know how close is your daughter to her stepmother or your homophobic parents. Or how close she sees you to them, as if she could not be wanting to create tension between you and said people.

Just ask her out and see what happens. If she agrees to see you in other place other than the bar she works at then yes, you might have a chance.

Don't make a big deal about it, you already talked with her about it, you saw what you saw. Just wait, don't pressure her, she may think you are worried, or feel unconfrontable, if she thinks you need to know, she will tell you.

I'm afraid there's nothing you can do, you even risk as being seen as the bad one here. She has to realize what's good for her on her on own.

I mean, are you happy right now?

It all comes down to wether the relationship makes you happy or not.

I'm not sure if that's the case, but I should add that with every relationship I have been, it's always the same, also, my mother blames my current or past girlfriends with every decision I make that she doesn't like, it can be a new haircut, or buying a house, it is never my idea, it's somebody else´s like I don't have a personality.

I must say that she does this thing were she tries to make me fight with her over my gf, I'm sad to admit that sometimes she accomplishes her purpose.

How hard is it for you to be receptive? You seem bent on ruining your relationship.

Serves her right, that what she gets for being rude and not being able to apologize.

I'm just saying that she probably would have gotten an apology or could have gotten her friend out of her car instead of taking her to the mentioned meeting. I'm all for expedited solutions.

A very kind approach. Thank you.

You need to speak of for yourself, if your friend is egocentric she probably didn't even notice that you were upset. By the time you texted her, a lot went on in your mind and by adressing the issue sooner it probably wouldn´t end up so badly.

I assume you have used this method, may I know how things went after?

I don't think it is, she has never mentioned anything about it.

I (26F) have been with my GF (23F) for two years, everything is great in our relationship, we are comitted to get married, have a family, and all that. But my mother (63) doesn't like her, and has never liked any girl I have been in a relationship with, no matter what, doesn't like her family either, no matter how welcoming they are, she (my mother) will always find something offensive about what they say or do, for example, when I was going to meet her family, her only advice was: "don't let them humilliate you just because they are rich". My mother doesn't really know my girlfriend, and she doesn't try to know her, she just makes things up to prove herself right. As I loose hope, I feel like I also lose the desire for the two of them to spend time together and get to know each other, because I feel that I can already know that my mother is going to tell me something that she doesn't like about my girlfriend and we are going to end up arguing about it, she will tell me that I would rather take the side of a stranger than hers, we will both cry, and everything will be worst than it was. I know this because it has happened before and things only have escalated to this point were I have had to ask for advice. So here I´m, asking you for any advice you can give me.