Leila22

no im 19

we been together since we were 15 n 14 its difficult to let those feelings go

i am hurting n its not my fault though. i am trying to get out and i was not wanting rude comments.

okay

i do but its complicated please stop going on. things happen and abuse takes place where you cant escape so think before you type as i am working my life through so go away

mate this is not my fault

thank you so much for replying. I just think I can't find anyone else so i go back to him thank you for such lovely words made me feel wanted! He has not been nice to me and we argue so i understand that my self esteem is very low.

hugs.

if thats what you want to do then go for it :) . okay that's okay if your not a drinker not many people are :)

he has messaged me this morning but has left me alone I am so stuck ah

explains everything :)

how is everything now? is everything a little bit better? waiting and not rushing into relationships is best, before getting with my boyfriend it was a year since being in a relationship, maybe try focusing on yourself before anyone else? the main person in the moment is you of course, I always learnt 'you have to love yourself before you love someone else'

sounds really horrible I am so sorry. it is classed as cheating and I am sorry you went through that hard time. when we confront someone for doing things wrong they often get pressed about it and take it out on the person nearest to them, and he took it out on you because he knew he messed up. him accusing you on trying to make yourself better is such a idiot move, because we all know, he knows what he's done and the only way he thinks he knows he is getting away with it is by accusing you off things to try and change the subject. Jess

Hey! me and my partner have been together on and off for a year, we have had our ups and downs, we are happy together but some days we fight and we are not happy with each other. I love him, and we went out on a date on his birthday, he enjoyed it, we went out on the lake on a swan, and we had a good time, after that we argued and he moved on with my best friend when he came running back to me saying he missed me etc. we are currently together and we often fight but we are happy together.he often cheated on me and I am so silly for taking him back but i cant deny the love i have for him, my best mate pushed her things up and he fell in love and cheated on me saying things about me which broke my heart inside, is that normal? I am not here to feel oh help me but want to address cheating hurts the other half as in my case he has hurt me. he kept saying i caused his cheating when i did not i did not tell him to cheat i stuck by him and he hurt me by cheating which is not nice. when you feel low like me after the break up, I have had mental health issues that he knows off, i got beaten up and he stood outside laughing, I was struggling with things that had happened at home and he had the cheek to rip me off like that it made me feel really sick inside and he calls me once each day and never hardly messages me, i don't feel like he actually wants me. I have suffered previously, with the date of loss of my nan and things and he knows when those dates come I am upset and to be gentle to myself but he sometimes wants to help me but he just gets bored and confides in me which makes me think he only is using me for when he has nothing else to do as he does it often and he even said it once. I am new to everything with kissing etc and I aren't a fan but i did it to please him as he is that type of guy, I aren't dissing him I am just letting everything out as that's what is best rather then build things up. he can go 3-4 days without messaging me and when he eventually messages me he replies and is rude, he says why you ignoring me stop annoying me and get lost. it breaks my heart. i aren't here to annoy him I want him to recognise that i am here for him i love him and i am standing around and getting messed about as that's not fair. Jess