I found a text on my boyfriends phone from another man about hooking up. I then snooped on his phone and found a website where he placed an ad seeking men for discreet encounters. I confronted him and he became very enraged. Called me some names then went silent and left. I gave it a few days then sent him a message saying if this is how he feels we should expect had a conversation about it that I'm here for friendship and if he needed to talk. He quickly accused me of trying to make myself feel better, that he did those things but didnt act on them so he's not wrong. Conversation got ugly and now I'm blocked from social media and his phone. I know going through his phone was wrong but Im not sure Im the one to blame for the breakup.
