bunkos
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I think maybe I just wan't clear on some things... its not a sex issue, the sex is fine. It has more to do with passion, lust, romance, those sorts of things. Also, she did get it from sex, and I was quite compassionate about it. We went through weeks were she was upset about it. I thought she was over it but she wasn't. Only to find out 2 years later, its been controlling her and our relationship the whole time. Its just so confusing how I should feel right now... I don't know whether to be mad at her for not telling me for all that time, or if I should just let it go. Defiantely a weird situation
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I've been sticking it out for 2 years now and it really sucks... SUCKS SUCKS SUCKS.. I don't even know what to say cause my head is so cluttered
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Oh yeah, and when we had that talk a month ago, she told me something huge... here it is. When we were together for about 3-4months she got diagnosed with the clap... chlomidia. I didn't have it but she did. She said that ever since that day she has thought about it everyday, and that is why she has trouble w/ the intamicy. She held it back from me for about 2 years. I think just the whole thing has soured the relationship in my eyes. I was so shoked to hear that she couldn't even tell me that it was bothering her for that whole time. We talked about it when it happened and I just blew it off... no big deal, that shits like wild fire anyways... I know tons of people who have had it. She keeps in her feelings, totally sucks. DAMN IT AGAIN!
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I moved in w/ my girlfriend in September while we are going to school. Just a month ago I had a huge talk w/ her about our relationship cause I really wasn't happy with our relationship on a sexual/intamate level. We get along great, only I really don't feel that the spark is there, no passion, no lust. Its tough... we're moving back to our respective parents houses in the summer and I really just want to tell her that its over. I love her like friggin' crazy. There is no doubt about that, but I'm just not happy with the relationship itself. Its eating me up big time. Any Tips? Any thoughts? I'm about 95% sure that I should break up with her only I know in 2 or 3 years from now I'm going to regret it cause she's one of those girls that you would easily spend the rest of your days w/. DAMN IT!