TahoeRJ79

He thanks for all the advice. I tired to stop talking to the girl (more on that later). I agree..its hard enough to know she was married and she is cheating, but even worse to know that her husband is off far away fighting while i have sex with his wife. For what i hear infidelity is a common problem with couples in the military. Most get married Waaay to young...this girl got married when she was 20 Obviously your young, your spouse is away in a different country for months at a time, you havent had a lot of expierence...its a recipe for disaster mix in the fact that the girl is very attractive. Well she is going to be persued. She called me today. I talked to her for a bit. I didnt want to talk to long. I asked how her relationship was with her husband. She said she regrets getting married. She says she knows he is cheating, and feels that they are apart so much it isnt heathly. She wants to a different life. I told her when she is single to call me. Damn its so hard to turn away a hot girl. They make you do the dumbest things

Well, i called her tonite. And she admitted she is married. She said her husband is in another state for the past couple of months, and that she "regretted getting married so young" they were married at 19. Then i told her i will call her later. End conversation. She texted me saying she likes the time we spend together. And she still wants to see me. Also that they have been on the "outs" lately. Whatever that means. Damn this sucks she was so damn nearly perfect. Nearly. we will see.

2 weeks ago i met a girl (Amber) at a bar. Her friend (Nick) introduced us. We had a brief hook up that night. but slowed it down, I was really interested in her and not as a one night stand. We had alot in common. We hit it off really well and talk every day. We went out 6 times since, and i have pretty much fallen for her. I called up a girl (Maggie) i new from school and surprisingly she knew of Amber. They used to work together. Well Maggie mentioned she was a bit of a hard boss and married!! Yes Married!!!...and even worse.... Her husband is in some military branch. Maggie "thinks" it is either coast guard or navy. According to her, her husband even "off" duty wasnt around as much as she thought a husband would be...both are Amber and husband are 22. She remembers Amber hanging out with her guy friend "Nick" more then the husband. Oddly Nick is also in the military. I didnt mention to Maggie i was seeing Amber, only we have mutal friends and hang out. I have only been to her house twice (late at night) and never saw any indication of a husband. No ring, no pictures, and no sign of a live in guy. I have yet to confront her about it. I am really in shock as to what to do. I find this girl immensly attractive, physcially and mentally. I already invested alot of time and emotion even this early in the stages of dating I feel the feelings are mutal. Now i feel sort of used. Like im here to keep her from getting bored while her husband is off and about. I really want to see her again, but i cant step on toes. It makes it worse that the sex is the best ever. help!!!