My wife and I have been for 7 years and we have a 6 yr old son.
We've had our ups and downs, but over the last three yrs. there's been
more downs than ups. We have had discussions in this time about problems realated to the house, finances, and family time, and band-aid solutions were put in place. Last month things came to a head, and we discussed separation. We are together under the same roof, basic improvements have been made, and we are both talking to councillors, separately. She see's a black void when she looks to the future, and doesn't not know whether just can regain the emotional part of our relationship. Do I move out and give her space? Do I stay at home and be invisible, until she needs me? Do I stay at home and beg for affection?
(all of the above include offering support and respect)
Any advice would help...
