You_Dont_Know_Me

No. I would not say he is ever really tense or serious. He's always in a laid back mood and relaxed around me - or at least I hope he is. I'm agreeing with everyone else's words that he may just be nervous. I think in his mind he has it that if he ejaculated while we were having s-e-x or something I'd be let down. Or, he get's highly distracted or is just nervous about doing that sort of thing in front of me. But, anymore advice is welcome. And thank you all.

I'm not real sure where to start. But, I'll try my best. I have been dating this wonderful guy for about a little over two months. And it's all been great, he's awesome. But, lately he's been getting into a little bit of trouble. Okay, just not a little - a lot. He was caught recently with cigarettes in his room and his parents weren't too happy about it. He no longer has a door, or anything in his room - and he won't be at home much longer. His father is taking him away this evening. To his grandmother's house, which is about 40 minutes from my home. I've left him with my phone card numbers, and told him to call if he ever needed anything. Tried to give him my debit card numbers, but he said he couldn't take it. Money, a ride, a place to stay -- anything. I'm so scared for him, and it hurts even more to know I may not see him for awhile now.He does not know how long he will be there -- and last night he called and told me everything and it almost sounded as if he was in tears. He tells me that he is just a screw up, and that he never desearves me -- that I am too good for him. And I can't get him to understand that I believe in the total opposite -- he's too good for me. And last night he told me how much he loved me, and how'd he would do anything just to hold me at the moment, and it was horrible. I love him soo much. I guess my question is -- what do I do now? Do I sit and wait (he fears I'm going to leave him now that this has happened) for him to return home. Do I beg his parents to forgive him, do I just sit in my room and cry in self pity. I try to stay upbeat while I'm on the phone with him -- he's upset because he knows how bad this hurts me -- and I don't want him to hurt anymore. What do I tell him to reassure him that I love him and I want to stay with him -- and that everything is going to get better once this situation clears up. That it is not the end of the world? He said that he was sorry for even telling me - that this isn't my situation. And he doesn't want to haul me down with it all. I realize there's nothing I really can do - except wait it out and hope that everything will be okay. Or just wait to see what happens. But, this kid is like a drug, and one will begin to have withdrawel symptoms. What am I suppose to do?

I've been sexually active with my boyfriend for about 2 months now. But, it seems everytime we do anything he never seems to climax. I, selfishly never seem to have a problem. I tell him though that I am sorry that he never gets to "finish", and he says it's not a deal with him. Only that I am happy, and I have a good time, and that's all that matters to him. But, I feel so bad - he has such stamina. At least I think it's stamina, but what could it be. We go and go and go and nothing ever happens. But, I want to make him climax. And I've read over these posts and notice that everyone gives excellent advice on this board - and so my question goes. . . Woman, Gentlemen - is there anything I can do that will make him just, scream ---- go, to be blunt? All advice is appreciated.