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mullet29

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  1. ok everyone this is the situation a couple of months ago my mate introduced me to this girl who was his best mate. He asked her out and she said no but they remained best friends Last few weeks they have been arguing quite a bit about a guy who asked her out who she wanted to go out with but she wanted to know how my mate felt before she gave him an answer. He wasnt happy but said do what you want, she tehn started asking me for advice and i said do what you want to do, dont worry about him. Then i started to like her and she kept asking me for advice, we would only talk about my mate or this other guy hardly anything else and when i asked her if she wanted to do anything at the weekend to take her mind off things she didnt reply. Then she told me that she and this guy agreed that they should just be friends and get to know each other better, but he left her a message on her fone saying he is scared of losing her, she sent a message back saying if you want something to happen then its up to you coz i still like you. this happened a few days ago but he hasnt replied, i said oh well its his loss there is plenty more guys out there. I have liked her for a couple of weeks and yesterday my mate started going out with another girl. Everytime i have said something like, i would love to be with a girl like you she has changed the subject, when i asked her out she didnt reply but everytime i see her she pokes her tongue out and she is quite cheeky. She said se values my opinion on things and she also said she is gonna forget about this other guy what should i do? ask her out? be her friend? just forget about it? help p.s its quite a long and complicated thing and if i hear anything else i will let you know thanks
  2. how do i do it? i really like her, and even though i havent been getting the right signals (i asked her out at the weekend, she didnt reply! i said i would love to be with a girl like her, she changed the subject!) i want to ask her out i dont know what to say, where to do it, when? also any tips on making her get attracted to me? im not the best looking guy so i dont think she is attracted to me, but i know you can make a girl attracted to you by saying the right things and doing the right things? so what are these things? i only see her at college, live quite far away but i do have her fone number, its her bday on 8th feb aswell any help will be greatly appreciated!
  3. anyone? im going to college in a couple of hours, any tips on how to behave, how to make women attracted to me? how to chat to this girl? anyone?????
  4. also any help with this would be greatly appreciated everyone thinks im a confident guy when im around them - mainly because, the way i talk etc it seems like i dont care what others think! but i get the impression when being me im a really hyper and energetic and random guy that people think im funny but arnt attracted to me! ive been told many times that im very funny and should be a comedian etc but when i try and impress a girl and when im around a girl i like i think that i can scare people easily coz im really random and a little loud and hyper! if people dont get to know the way iam, they get scared of me easily! any ideas on how to tone this down but keep my same funny random way!? i have a feeling that this girl thinks im a little weird coz of the way iam, so how do i make her think its a cute cheeky random thing instead of a weird scary random thing?
  5. im 18, i met this girl a few months ago, through a mate of mine, he and her west best mates and he really really liked her, but she didnt find him attractive so they didnt go out. basically its getting really complicated lately, with those two as another guy asked her out and my mate is starting to get with this other girl. My mate has been acting like a knob lately with her but lately ive started to really like her. But every conversation we have is about my mate or this other guy or trying to sort out the problems between them all, and i really think im in the just friends zone. everytime ive mentioned i like her or would like to be with a girl like her she basically changes the subject back to my mate. She doesnt know whether she wants to be with this other guy or not but i was reading her txt msgs today (she let me) and a msg said from this other guy "of course you can get to know me better" so obviously she isnt intirley sure, but if my mate wasnt being a knob to her by getting angry and upset when she mentions this other guy, im sure they would of been together! So basically i need some tips on how to be attractive to this girl and other girls without getting into the just friends zone. and how to get out of the just friendzone with this girl - im not the best looking guy either, so how do i become attractive to her and how do i strike up conversations with her not regarding my mate or this other guy!? also the push pull technique ive heard about and i wonder how i would use that in a situation like this? its her bday 8th feb so obviously you might want to involve that in any ideas or advice you have for me? thanks for any help
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