im 18, i met this girl a few months ago, through a mate of mine, he and her west best mates and he really really liked her, but she didnt find him attractive so they didnt go out.
basically its getting really complicated lately, with those two as another guy asked her out and my mate is starting to get with this other girl. My mate has been acting like a knob lately with her but lately ive started to really like her.
But every conversation we have is about my mate or this other guy or trying to sort out the problems between them all, and i really think im in the just friends zone.
everytime ive mentioned i like her or would like to be with a girl like her she basically changes the subject back to my mate.
She doesnt know whether she wants to be with this other guy or not but i was reading her txt msgs today (she let me) and a msg said from this other guy "of course you can get to know me better" so obviously she isnt intirley sure, but if my mate wasnt being a knob to her by getting angry and upset when she mentions this other guy, im sure they would of been together!
So basically i need some tips on how to be attractive to this girl and other girls without getting into the just friends zone. and how to get out of the just friendzone with this girl - im not the best looking guy either, so how do i become attractive to her and how do i strike up conversations with her not regarding my mate or this other guy!?
also the push pull technique ive heard about and i wonder how i would use that in a situation like this?
its her bday 8th feb so obviously you might want to involve that in any ideas or advice you have for me?
thanks for any help