cantgetoverher

Thanks for the advice. I apologize if I offended anyone by insinuating the person was a nut case because of her age, but I was just putting my worries on the table. I have talked to her and she has the attitude of "lets not look too far in the future and worry about now" cause we just started. Maybe the older ones are more mature and stable then the younger ones.

She just turned 30 a few month ago and I am 24. I am worried that I might regret it later down the road in say 3 years or so and hurt her. Since she just turned 30, is hot, financially sucessful (so am i), is unmarried, chilldess it makes me wonder why she isnt taken yet. Is this the case for most women this age? If they aren't taken yet is that a red flag? Do they feel like they need to grab someone before its too late or is that my paranoia?

Here is my situation. I am a 24 year old male have dated younger women all my life (at least 3-4 years younger). I recently got out of a 3 year relationship with someone who was 3 years younger then me. I just startd seeeing someone but she is 6 years older then me. She looks beautiful and as young as someone who is 8 years younger (works out etc...). Is 6 years a lot of difference if the woman is older? I am worried that her biological clock will start ticking or if i will regret it later when she's older. Any advice?

After looking around she left some stuff of hers. Also what do i do w/ all the pictures we took together. I have over 300 pictures / videos on my computer from our relationship. Do most people delete them and forget ?

I told her I would move to texas to be with her but i just started grad school and can't until I finish up my degree in a year or so. It just makes me upset that she can't wait another year up here with me.

Here is my situation. My girlfriend is from texas and moved up to the dc area about 3.5 years a go. We got together shortly after she moved here and have been together ever since. She has lived with me for about 3/4 of our almost 3 year relationship up until the end. In the past she continually says that she hates this area and wants to move away but cant because she loves me. She says she misses her friends and family in texas and feels like she is too dependent on me and that i have hurt her in the past and she can't get over it. About a month a go i noticed she was acting different and looking up apartments in texas. I could feel that she was going to move. She finally told me she will move in january and wanted to work on our relationship and make it long distance. I decided that we needed a break so we took one for almost a week. About 4 days a go we missed each other so much that we started hanging out again and sleeping with each other every day. After the last time i was with her i realized that i couldnt do the long distance thing and told her we need to end our relationship and she needs to move all her stuff out of my house. Of course yesterday she comes to move her stuff out i was drunk and started saying some mean stuff and we got in a heated hurtful argument which ended with me bursting in tears and leaving the room while she moved out. I am regretting not trying the long distance relationship but at the same time I wish she understood why I won't do it. I can't decide what to do. I feel horrible that she is gone and don't know what to do because I hate her so much but i love her at the same time. Should I tell her how i feel and continue communicate with her through email? Should I appologize for starting a fight and end the relationship on better terms? All i want to do is forget her and move on. I wish she just would have broken up with me without talking about continuing our relationship long distance. Some how I feel like she didn't have the courage to break up with me and copped out so i would have to do it.