matthes

If I was really in a girl who asked _me_ out (not I her) and I really didn't have the time today or this week, I'd definitely suggest a different time. That's even a thing that I'd do with closer friends, so if I have no time currently, I'll say that we should meet later. And, if you're approaching him like this and he's not reacting, I'd just wait for a sign from him and stop further approachs, even if that hurts you and if it's not easy at first. That's a clear sign, though! matthes

I met a girl once in reallife after chatting and phoning with her for quite a while. She was very nice but it simply didn't work out because she was not the type of girl I'm interested in and there were about 500 km between us (and I was 16). We just spent a very nice weekend, with kissing (nothing else), and it was ok. But we lost contact soon (ok, that's my fault, I think, because I'm not good in keeping long-term contacts). So I think, you _may_ find your love on the net or you don't. As always, there's no guarantee for nothing! You _may_ also meet your love on the entrance of a subway train. Just to add, there's noone of my friends here who had success dating online, most even tried it. My best friend, though, found two or three girlfriends on the net. But his current and longest-lasting love he found through friends Greets, matthes

I agree with Prezkot. But I'd imagine a different reason, though far-fetched: She started to more than like you and just feels uneasy because she doesn't know your feelings towards her. She tries to hide their emotions and that makes her feeling nervous. Just a guess, though

Hi, it's a common problem, I think. She's not interested in you as a boy friend now, so try to forget her. Since female friends are invaluable, be happy that you have such a good relationship. And the first time someone asks you: "Is she your girlfriend?," you'll gonna be very very happy and see the friendship differently. It's hard, and I know that, to see her flirting with others, but, hey, you can always get her away from other guys with the excuse: "I have to talk to you right now, please help me: see that wonderful blond girl over there? What can I do?" matthes