baddasslegend92

Lilly> The guy is an alcoholic. It runs in his family. Shouldn't that be enough to make people stop wanting to drink? He sounds pretty irresponsible to me. Thank yourself that you only wasted 2 months with this guy and move on. Keep up the NC and the good work.

 

I've learned the hard way, you can't help people who don't want to help themselves.

You are right about that!

I can't believe this tread is still going strong super dave

I am very happy in my relationship and I still do it

Trust me prozzack, it did hurt like it was no tomorrow!!

Nc really works, my ex broke up with me and wanted to be only friends...I said ok but then started the NC from email. myspace,phone etc.That way she realized what she lost and came back to me..Our relationship is 10 times stronger now.This don't always happen to everyone, but you have to look after yourself, and if it means for you to cut him off then do so.

I felt the same!!! I did NOT want to take her back after that.I was like if you really cared about me how could you just drop me and date right after we broke up.All this crap was going through my head.But when she came that weekend and I seen her I could not say no.I told her there wil; be no 3rd chances.If she mess up this time she might as well hit the road.I mean I never took any of my ex's back..I felt well, I can give her another chance after praying about it.I guess she realized that she messed up and lost a good man.I felt I make the right decision.

This was the best advice I ever took,because of this she realized what she lost and came running back to me..Our relationship now is better then ever.Thanks Dave

Well just to give you an update, we did get back togther.That was the best thing i could of ever done!!!She is sorry about what she did..and that's why i tool her back....I never been the one to take people back especilly after being with someone else.But some people deserve a second chance.

Just an update???She drove all the way from VA to Ga just to tell me that she loves me and that I am the only one for her.She was so hurt about what she did to me and I could see it in her eyes.I love her very much and I did take her back.Since we been back togther we have been so happy.I am still scared but without the NC I think none of this would of been possible.thank you guys so much for you advice.I am truly in love with this woman and she is also inlove with me.

I really want to, she'd driving all the way from VA to GA so we can be together this weekend...So most likely I will.Im just scared.I mean I felt the reason she broke it off was because she was feeling someone else and since it didn't work she coming back...But I do love her and willing to make it work for us.

She broke up with be because she said she had no time for a relationship..So I did the NC...she said she had that time to think about us and she realized that she is in love with me.It hurt when she told me that but i guess she really see what she had.

Can you tell me why???

Would you take your ex back if while you was broken up (there choice) they slept with someome else in a two week period????

Well, as hard as this is to hear, I think you have to accept that he will not likely be coming back. I know that hurts like heck but I have found that acceptance is to only thing that will ever move us out of the pain.

 

You WILL be okay. It WILL get better. Until then, seek the support that you need here and please know that many others here are feeling just as you are and are here for you.

exactly...Time will heal...and keep your friends around!!!

It happened to me.now Im not sure if I want her back!!!!We was broken up for 2 weeks and now she admitted she slept with someone else during that time period, Now she wants me back...Hell !!!now that she's back I don't know if I can trust her.O well!!!

Yeah you dont want to fake it...Somehow you need to tell him.If a divorce will make YOU happy then that may be the best thing for you to do.No need for you to be miserable.Just know he will be hurt!!!

Why don't you love him???Don't he treat you well???I mean whats the problem?Is there someone else in the picture? I don't understand when a woman have a good man they always find a way to mess it up.

It's just so hard for me right now.It just keeps playing in my head!!!She live in VA and I live in GA and she wants to drive down to see me...She said she was vomerable and thats why it happened.She wants me to forgive her,and for some reason she is so scared that im going to try to get back and cheat on her.

By the way this all happened ina two week period!!!

I was in a LD relationship.We started being together on New Years.After a couple of month things was going well between us,but then all of a sudden she told me she needed time apart because of her job blah blah blah...Make a long story short she broke up with me on Valentines day and I was so hurt.So when I came back home I decided to do the NC with her.She contacted me yesterday and wanted to get back together because she told me she loved me and couldn't stop thinking about me.So I decided to give it another try.That night when we talked I asked her while we was not together did she have sex with anyone.She hesitated and said yes, With one of her brokers, I was like ??Of course I am hurt all over again, because now it seem like she left me just to get a piece of and then want to run back to me.What I want to know from u guys is should I take her back???I mean I am so hurt by this.Even though we was not togther I feel like she still cheated on me.Would I be able to trust her again??Please help.

yeah dude u messed up!!!!I was on a plane ride from just getting dumped and on the way back this beautiful woman sat nex to me on the plane.I did not say anything the whole trip until we was 15 min from landing..We had a great conversation but I was so nervous to ask her for her number.If I could of did it all over again I would of asked

Actually that an excuse to look great!!!Go out and buy new clothes ,work out and look great!!!...

You need to let your current boyfriend go.Its going to hurt him like hell,but you both will be better off..I mean you can't even give the new guy your all thinking about your ex.

LOL@loke2121 that is a good 1

That's all you can do.I mean you can only do so much and then you have to leave it to the other person the fill in the blanks.Take it day by day.