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i just do, he tells me about a girl he likes who isnt me i know that for sure, its so hard as i wouldnt mind having feelings for him, if they were returned

hi

im falling for a male friend of mine, hes been there for me when me and my bf broke up, i dont want this feelings for him as i know he dosnt feel the same way...... how do i stop this with out loosing him as a friend xxxxx

thank you, dosnt make it easy tho only you say only time will tell xxx

we have been together 3 years, we do arguie but we havnt had a argument over the last couple of weeks, were not board of each other but theres nothing to do where we live, other than going to each others parents house.

im 21 and hes 23 i want to start moving out and start our lives together, but he dosnt hes scared.

i find he plans alot things but never dose them.... we havnt argued but we have been bored not knowing what to do with each other like going places drinks etc

hes has asked for a couple of weeks now .......and said hes been thinking about old times

thanks for any help

its not actually a break its more of a no contact thing, we dont know if were together due to love or comfort, i asked for it as i didnt want to finish things but we both wanted to sort our heads out.....but i dont know what hes feeling at all as there is no contact

hi i hope you can help

me and my bf are having a couple days break to c how we feel about each other, i love him and miss him lots but i dont know how he feels ............ i hate this guessing game

the world dosnt seem to beautiful at the moment, so much has happened in the last couple of months people being hurt, dieing

the other day there was a car crash and 5 teenagers died, all between the age of 14 and 17 i knew 2 of them but we wernt close. but they had burried another friend that day, and died them selfs that night.

since this has happened i have been thinking of another friend of mine who also died 6 months ago also in a car he tock hes own life.

it makes me think what happens after life, what could be so bad about life that you have to do that........... i feel so sad.

i cant get it of my mind

i dont know if this is in the right place.

my boyfriend and i have been together 3 years at the end of this month, we want to do something special for each other but not to sure what to do.

any help is great thanks xxx

ldr's are very hard, i was in one for nearly a year then i became seriously ill and my boyfriend left his job and came home for good. i wouldnt worn people off them i would just make sure that they knew what they are letting them selfs in for.

and wish them good luck xx

how do we know if someone has actually done what they say they are going to do on here.

i know what its like when they say there coming back, my bloke told me if was going to come home early i wanted to tell everyone.

oh yer hes home this sat

i got some good news today

my bloke rang me to say hello and that he loves me lots we spoke for about 20 mins.

then he phoned back about 10 mins later and told me that hes coming home early, hes not due back till the end of the month and now hes coming back next week, and were going hoilday before he goes back.

im so happy with this

just need to people my good news xxxxx

he has had it all hes life but its only showing to be a problem now, hes in the rfa (royal fleet aux) and he has to be in good health, if he dosnt hear the orders correct then he might do things wrong and put people in danger or just mess things up with the ship so it is pretty important that he has good hearing.

but thanks for your help

he is in april, but hes worring about hes job i just want to put hes mind at rest

hi my boyfriend has problems with hes hearing and thinks he might lose hes job, he works at sea and needs to take orders and he misses what they say.

he spoke to his friend whoa a nurse who says it sounds like he has a damaged nerve, i was wondering what are the symptons for this

any help would be great

thanks xx

i think hes not e-mailing or ringing because he just dosnt have time, my bf is away at sea with the rfa i hardly hear from him,also he dosnt like writing and just dosnt have time he gets up early,by the time he has finished hes too tired to think about doing anything eles.

also he has to be social otherwise he wont fit in,

i dont think you have anything to worry about xxxx

ld is so hard, ive been away from my man for about a month now, and have another month to go, but i went out for a drink with some friends tonite, and got a bit drunk, and they were asking about my man i felt upset that he couldnt be there with me and wanted him to come home so much.

why are ld so hard when it comes to little things, like showing off your new stuff or watching a film together or even when you just need a hug to make everything alright again, i love him loads and wish he was with me now.

sorry maybe drink talking but ill still miss him loads when i wake up tomorrow, xxxxx

how often do you see him, maybe you can tell him when you see him face to face xx

i get a girl at every port.... or is he gay

i wish they would think before they say anything

its what people say to you it gets you thinking, i know why this person said it but its helping me to cope with him being away " mean people ay"

royal,fleet aux its hes job

someone close to me said that my boyfriend cant love me that much as he wouldnt want to join the r.f.a and risk loosing someone he loves that much.

do you think thats true ?

hes only 19 and so much to live for, i hope hes not done anything silly