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i like the one with horses it sounds very romantic ..... good luck xxx

what are you partners up to for you to be in a ld relationship .......xx

i hate it when you say " i miss him so much" and people say get over it he will be home soon.

its hard and i dont think anybody understands how you actually feel.

umm everyone is diff but i find it a real turn on when my bf dose it to me, he also likes it, i dont think is dirty as your not going in to the ear.

as most people know my bf is in the r.f.a so hes away alot, well i miss him so much when hes away,hes coming back for four days over the new year and then hes going till march, after that hes at college for 4 months and then back to sea for 6 months, ive been with him for two years and love him loads and want to wait for him to finish.

the thing is i cant cope with him being away so much, i miss all the small things that you dont think about till it stops happening like just watching a film in the evening or knowing hes only round the courner and waking up to him in the mornings.

i just want a normal relationship with him.

why are ldr so hard to cope with

!!!!! help me to learn to cope !!!!!!!

im sorry to hear that ..... i dont think anything could be worse than loosing him altogether it must be the worst thing ever xxx

yer hes in the r.f.a he left today after spending the week together i just love him loads and miss him when hes not around............. 3 months is a long time x

my boyfriend has gone to sea for 3 months, i hate it on my own.

things go through my mind like is he cheating on me, will he come home and i feel so lonely with out him................how can i cope with this

please help

me and my bf got together 2 years ago and broke up after a few months together( hes parents didnt think i was good enough for him),we sorted things out and started dating again everything was going fine hes parents liked me going round to his houseand accepeted me (spelling). then he joined the r.f.a and we broke up again as we didnt think it was fair on each other we stayed in contact and relised we loved each other so much that we tried again. we have been going strong, hes home tomorrow i have not seen him in over 6 weeks .................. cant wait

i like to see that you can still split up and get back together and be happy

the balls in your court now, xxx at least your in control

i think there is very few girls out there like her, shes not worth it if she was only after your money xxxxxxxxxxx

i agree we stayed in contact, everyday we were able to comfort each other when we were having bad days and the first person i told good news too, i think it shows that you still care about the other person and love them

n/c is not always the best way to go.... do what you think would be good for your relationship and yourself xxx

thank you xxx

i just wanted to show that there is hope for people, i hope you all find what your looking for with your ex or with someone new.

good luck

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ive posted on this forum before about breaking up with my boyfriend of 18 months because of him leaving for the r.f.a, i was so upset and didnt want to come to terms with it anyway i know people say no contact is the best way but i couldnt go a day with out making sure he was okay, he moved 200 miles away to go to college but we talked nearly every day for about 2 to 3 months after we broke up. then one night he told me he still loved me and i showed how much he ment to me by sticking by him through everything that had happened with us.

he sent me some flowers one day that i had no idea were coming the message on the card was so sweet and perfect they must of cost a bit.

he came back from college after six weeks and we went away together it was so perfect he told me some things that i needed to hear like he was sorryxx

we only had a week together before he went to sea, he rings me and texts me everytime hes at port and hes even cried over the phone because he missed me so much.

its so nice to be back with the man of my dreams i know what your all think you dont know what hes up to when hes away, but hes not like most men hes kind and loveing and has proved to me so many times what i mean to him.

see not everybreak up is for good, just think of it as breathing space and if they are worth it things will sort them selfs out, you can work out anything if there is love there...

thanks

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hi me again..

my boyfriend came back after 6 weeks at college for a week,now he has gone to sea for 6 weeks, he has to share a room with 13 other people which he is not too pleased about, i miss him so much but i love him loads more ... why is love so hard.. im scared ill lose him forever he said i wont that he will be here forever but its still not stoped me from being worried xx

im sorry to hear that it must be hard..... i have 8 days to go and ive now got the worst cold ever......... all i wanna do is go to bed xx

hi me again

i cant wait 10 days to go and countin till my boyfriend comes back for the week. hes promised me 3 special days at the start i cant wait

bet your looking forward to it him coming home

i know its a long time i get to spend a week with him, and then hes gone for 4 months to sea im going to miss him so much xxx

where is your man

hi my boyfriend has gone to the navy and im left at home just thinking about him. when i ring him and ask him if he is missing me he says he dosnt have time to think about me that much because he is so busy also he use to ring, txt, e-mail and i saw him daily and then it all stop so now i only talk to him some evenings for about 30 mins... i really had a hard time with this all sorts of things were going through my head like he dosnt love me, whats he doing, who is he with but at the end of the day you get use to it and it just becomes apart of everyday life.its doing us some good because you become more independent and i have lernt to trust him so much more....

im pleased for you, i have 31 days till my good friend comes home for the week i too miss him so much.

i dont think it matters 200 miles or 1500 miles it still hurts. i still love him he seems to be having so much fun and im at home just thinking about him.i know i should go out and have some fun but im worried that our feelings for each other will change if i start forgetting about him .......... also im worried he will come back a different person xx

dose anyone know anyone who is posted in southhampton in the uk xxx

yep i agree its like she dosnt want you but dosnt want anyone eles to be with you and she knows you will be there to fall back on if she gets lonely ... she is playing with your head xx

trust me i have tried xx he dosnt talk about hes feelings its all guess work with him he has always been like that ... its nice sometimes because when he dose say something then you know he means it xx