Arcon

I think alot of guys run away because they're not sure what to do with themselves and their emotions. Women are usually raised to embrace their feelings. They have more of an instinct to operate with both emotion and intellect. Whereas guys tend to rely more on purely intellect. I guess it's just fear. But I can relate. As was said before, all guys are diffrent. I've actually had girls do the same thing to me. I've always been the commitment bound one and the girls aren't sure. I always thought girls wanted the commitment. But there are plenty who don't it seems. So I see where you're coming from in a way. It's difficult. But in the end, if someone's just going to bail on you when they're scared, they aren't worth keeping around anyways, right? You'll find someone who isn't afriad, or who can face up to those feelings and talk it over with you. Don't worry.

Hello All. I've been thinking long and hard about my problem, and am unable to come to a satisfactory conclusion. So I'm hoping for a little advice. I'm not even sure how to word this. Well, I'm self educated. I was a high school drop-out. But I was always a quick learner and I worked hard educate myself. But my wife is very diffrent than I. I love her more than anything. But sometimes I feel like I'm just talking over her head. She misses out on alot of the jokes I tell, alot of the social comments I make, and she easily forgets things, whereas I have a very strong memory. I don't want to be rude to her. But I don't know how to approach this without making her feel like I'm saying she's stupid. It's a very sensative topic for her already. She doesn't do well at college, so she thinks she might be stupid without me saying anything about our situation. So I'm between a rock and a hard place. Any advice or thoughts are certainly welcomed. Thanks for your time.