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Thats the thing...I'm not sure it would make me happy or w/e to go out with him. I'm kinda unsure about it...ha wow I know I change my mind a lot or am very complicated. thanks for your comments guys.

yeah a lot of guys won't mature for a LONG TIME. haha but it's not like marriage. It's more of at school. I shouldn't care what people think but I've already gotten some sour replies when I talked about micheal and me possibly dating him. His mom said somethin to my mom about marriage. that made me kinda weirded out. I really duno whats gonna happen. I kinda have it set in my mind that if we do, we won't go out for a while.

For some reason, I seem to like the younger guys. It may b/c I only get attention from them. I'm 15 and I like 3 guys. It's average for a girl my age to like a lot of guys or want someone for them. I like one guy thats 13...kinda strange I know.It would be like dating my brother. This guy likes me a lot and we have a lot in common. He hasn't matured all the way. A lot of guys haven't. Of course we don't go to the same school and we never will. I met him at church.

The second guy is a year younger than me basically. I have no clue if he likes me or not. I used to be the chick that would ask guys right off the bat if they liked me. It would annoy them to no end. So I don't do that anymore. I really want to know tho. The 13 yr old, (micheal) introduced me to this guy thats a year younger than me. (zach). He's really cool and fun but I haven't talked to him like one on one. he goes to my school and it's not so weird if I go out with a freshman. (I'm a sophmore.)

Third guy goes to a school in my district and is a sophmore like me. He doesn't like me like that. Just as a friend. he used to supposedly. I have some things in common with him but I don't like him as much as the others. I talk to him about these things most of the time.

I'm trying to figure out what I should do about all of this. I really don't want to date micheal b/c of his age. He's younger than me and I'm afraid it won't work out. Zach is micheal's friend so if I try and pursue him I'm in deep b/c well it's micheal's friend and he likes me. It's really frustrating me and I duno how to even begin to sort it out. Anybody wana give it a try?

nope I think it's fine... You can be jealous about that. But I would tell her how you feel. If she keeps goin on with it then don't put yourself through somethin like that. She can have guy friends but she shouldn't leave you.

set a date in advance...like waaaay ahead...then it'll be on both schedules!

Good luck! He sounds great!

Micheal is 13 and an 8th grader. He'll turn 14 in July. I'm 15, turning 16 in May. He likes me..and I like him. It's been a while since I've gone out, or have been asked out. Feburary was my last relationship and so I've had NO sexual contact or anything since then. It's tearin me to pieces lol. I think thats one reason why I like micheal. Plus he cares for me, he's a good guy and fun to be around. But he DOES act a little immature..ok a lot. He doesn't like to touch on the whole touchin subject but I'm breakin him down.

I kinda wished I didn't like him b/c I know it's weird being a sophmore and him being an 8th grader. I think I just miss that contact with someone and having someone and since he's right there...I take that chance.

There's someone else who's actually my age, but, I don't see myself with him as much as I see myself with Micheal.

I guess I'm sorta venting but also asking for your advice. Anythin will help just don't be too judgemental I know my boundries and I know where I stand.

may throwin it all away is bad..what do I know I'm 15 and have never been in a serious relationship..I just offered my opinion and advice b/c no one else had.

As much as you'd like to think of each other as best friends. He's not acting like it and you are. I say lose him. It's not fair to you at all to be pushed aside like that.

Maybe if you don't talk to him or hang around him for a while he may wana come hang out with you more. If not, then it's his loss. There's no point in trying to get someone to be your friend when they're not treating you as one.

That really sucks losing someone like that. And so close to having a 1 year relationship.

It is really hard to trust someone after they tore your heart out. My suggestion is to rid everything in the house of his. everything he gave you left, get rid of it. Send it back to him, sell it. As for the marking on the wall, maybe get a friend to paint over it or try and get it off if you're not able to do it. Get your friends to sell the stuff. In order to get rid of the person, you have to get rid of their stuff.

I know it sounds harsh. But ya know, he was pretty harsh to you. Thats crazy to just dump you like that. It's really wrong also. If not sell it, burn it. haha Just be strong and don't rush into anything. Keep your head up and you'll find someone who suits you.

maybe he just had something to do. Don't worry about it.

If you really didn't talk to him at all that day, then maybe there is.

Some guys freak out about little poems and stuff sometimes. They get confused. Depends how the maturity level is and how long you've been in the relationship.

Don't worry be happu

Yeah...I think I'm so tired or bummed about havin to class I don't feel like talkin to anyone. Stupid idea but yeah. Thanks guys!

ask him what's goin on? why you guys don't talk as much. If he really doesn't talk to you much then don't talk to him. He may just come to you...

I hate drama..but maybe you should have asked steven first. But you can never really trust what he says cause you may not be sure also. It's not what you should have done it's what you could have done. Don't worry about it. I would have just told Lindsey that someone had told you that they saw steven with another girl and then Lindsey could ask Steven. You at least warned Lindsey so it's ok. Dont worry about it

I never really post, I usually just go to the unanswered posts and answer them the best I can. But I have a problemo.

At school and church I'm two different people. I'm mostly myself at church but at school I feel like I can't be myself. I don't have close enough friends at school that I could be my outgoings self. I usually am very outgoing and happy. I got into Drill Team at school to possibly make new close friends but also be able to dance. I'm dancing but those friendships haven't been made. I guess I'm a little too impatient and can't wait. Everyone's tellin me it takes time but, most of the girls on my team have found someone that they can really connect with. I haven't. I don't have that many guy friends at school so that doesn't help either. I thought being a sophmore this year and being involved with the school would help my chances of being myself and making close friendships. It hasn't worked out that way I guess.

I guess if ya have any advice give it. I know what you might say...just be myself anyway. Tried that. No one seemed to respond well.

yup...even if it's 4 years apart.. 13 is waaaayy diff from 14 and so on... I would just keep it a 2 yr diff once you turn 14 just keep it less than that for now. It'd make everything a whole lot less complicated.

she's talkin about a song that you two would have between each other? of course thats good! haha you act as if you've never asked out a girl or have never seen girls in your life... good luck!

She likes you, ask her out when you fell the time is right. Never too late or too early. about the crazy dad...just be VERY polite when you meet him it'll all work out.

I used to think I had depression. Especially since my mom has it and it can be hereditery... I would just keep seein the therapist and get it all out. It'll take a long time to go away. I can just tell ya don't put up a mask. Show your true self. Cry if ya need to. And maybe if you tell your friends a little more they'll understand it worked for me. hold on! it'll get better

you're shy..thats why...I duno ask some of your guy friends to kinda get you in on the action if they are..

I think that when you tell guys that you like them sometimes they get kinda freaked out and don't talk to you for a while. On the other hand they may feel the same way you do. I think that you should just send him hints. Flirt with the boy, smile at him. just little things. Maybe then he'll catch on.

Thats really hard. I agree with you though. You can befriend anyone you want. The thing is, sometimes you have to chose. There's nothin you can do to make your friend feel more comfortable. It's somethin they have to feel on their own.

DO IT!!! it's cute

I think she's kinda embarrassed that her friends were tellin you that. Plus she may not wana start somethin when she's with this other guy so it doesn't turn into anything huge. don't worry about it. If she really likes you she'll tell you.

I'm younger but I have to tell you. You are way better than that. She's probably texting you b/c she thinks that you guys can still be friends. Or that she wants to throw it in your face. I would do what you're doin right now. Ignore it. What she did to you doesn't give her the right to get your attention. You're better than that and I would ignore her.

Good luck with everything!

yeah I think it sounds like she likes ya a little. hopefully it doesn't work out between her and that guy so you guys will be able to get together!