peanut15

Richard, Of course there are signs to finding someone who won't cheat on you but sometimes you just never know. My husband never cheated on anyone in his past but he's done so with me. As for me, I've cheated with past boyfriends but never the serious ones until now. (but that's another long story). You are young and you are starting to enter the dating scene. I am not sure why you haven't been on dates but then again one serious boyfriend I had in the past was the same way. You are still young and I suggest you just start going out with girls that interest you and you figure it out from there. I don't think there's a fool proof way of protecting yourself from cheating.

Tough one.... Acutally, both would upset me more...both acts means that there's something missing from me that my husband needed. I know both emotionally are different however the reasons are the same and that apparently there was something that I didn't have that my husband found in someone else (actually he did as my husband has a physical affair with someone). Personally, a more intimate act is intercourse however to some people it may be one in the same.