Hey there. My boyfriend dumped me after several years. I'm miserable! The thing is initially I was really understanding towards him, but after the conversation ended I felt really humiliated about how needy I was acting. Then a few days later I wrote him an angry letter, then he called and I was still angry and I yelled a lot, but eventually we got off the phone feeling a little better. My friends are telling me to completely cut off contact with him if I want a shot at getting him back. The trouble is that the last time we spoke I was still acting like we could be friends and hang out this weekend. Oh I forgot, early this weekend I sent him a degrading email begging him to tell me when he said he loved me when we broke up if that meant he loved me the same as he used to or if he was just being nice. OK, so my question is, I am blowing him off seriously right now, not responding to his email, not picking up the phone when he calls to see about hanging out this weekend, etc. Should I answer the phone and give him a reason for suddenly shutting down or just let him wonder? thanks i know that was a long post!!
