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Well I know she doesn't hate me, just because she never has...she always tries to stay in contact with me to some degree. For instance she wants to hang out sometime next week, do a little catching up because it's been so long. That's why the dreams confuse me because I know she's always liked me, whether as more or just as friend. I'm not sure what to think about the dreams, but if I'm not insane now, I will be soon if this continues.

I agree with all of the above posts. Tell her you're sorry about what happened, be cklear about that, but also be clear about the fact that the relationship is gone. She's using you as someone she can come to who will listen to her problems, nothing more. I say keep the contact cut off.

Man I've been there. this is my advice, just like the first post...NO CONTACT!!. It sucks, it hurts, it truly blows but it's the best damn medicine you can get for a broken heart.

Every since the girl I was dating broke up with me (we ended up fooling around for about a year...smart move on my part..note the sarcasm there) It was a great relationship..love...well blah blah you've heard it all before. Anyway, Every few weeks or so I have a really bad dream about her, with another guy, or telling me my faults etc etc. This has been going on for three years now and they only get worse. For a full year I didn't even have any contact with her nor did I think about her, so it was strange that I was still having these nightmares. Has this happened to anyone else? Or am I certifiably insane? Any help to suppress these dreams would be mucho appriciated.