My girlfriend and I are Juniors in High school and have been together for over 2 years. Her mother has never really approved of me despite never having really met me except on an occasional pass by. Her mom eavesdropped on one of our conversations and overheard us discuissing weither or not we were ready for sex. Her mother has always been extremely controlling as far as her daughters social life, always telling her who to hang out with. Now she is telling her daughter were to work, wha service groups to be in, how to study, all to keep her away from me. Despite us living only 2 miles apart her mom is doing everything she can to keep us appart. Their relationship is very unhelthy. Her first 2 kids were rather reserved and not very social and now my gf is the only one in the family pursuing a social life and she is taking a big hit. So now my gf has decided to break from me to make her mom happy but it is sacrificing her own happiness. What can be done for all of this. We cant stand to be apart and I've spoken to a nuetral adult who think the problem is much deeper and within the mother. What can be done to fix this situation, and how can all of these relationships be healed?
