please help me....my faith is so important to me, its one of my biggest things....btu im bisexual, and i have a boyfriend. now ive personally belvied that its not who you love, btu how much you love that decides if youre a good catholic, but it just seems like everyone around me disagrees...and the last time i heard, "thou shall not be gay" isnt a comandment, while "thou shall nto lie" is! input, please?