Babypottz514

Someone asked why I was angry he talked to this girl. Well, he broke up with me and told me he would tell me if he talked to another girl or met someone else. I kept asking him cause I figured he would meet another girl as soon as we broke up. I just wanted him to be honest because he was supposed to be thinking about whether or not we would get back together. We talked the entire time we were broken up and we even had sex for the first time while we were broken up. The thing is I just found out that the day before we had sex he started talking to this girl cause someone told him she liked him after the one time she saw him. They never hung out, they only met once and she has a boyfriend. I had him call her cause he lied and told me he had her number because it was his friend's gf and that was the only way he could reach him and that he put the number in there before we broke up. Because I am very jealous and have trouble trusting anyone I always used to check his phone for numbers and never saw that so I new because of that and because of what number she was that it was recently put in. He continued to lie to me until I stole his phone to call her myself. He got very angry and that is how I knew he was angry cause if he was telling the truth he wouldn't of cared if I called her or not. He said he didn't tell me cause he knew I wouldn't get back with him. I probably wouldn't of been that mad if he was honest with me because I was completely honest with him and told him I was talking to another guy. He swears he is telling the entire story and finally called her and asked if they ever hooked up and she said no but he could of always told her to say that. I'm not sure whether to believe him or not just because I can't tell when he is lying until it usually blows up to be this huge thing. I really want to stay with him because things were fine except for that he neglected to tell me that and then lied about it.

I just found out that while my bf and I were broken up for 3 weeks he talked to another girl. We got back together about a month ago and I just found out tonight. I looked through his phone and found some girl named Beth and he lied about who she was. He said she was his friend's gf and that was the only way he could reach him. I knew he was lying because I get this bad feeling when things are wrong and he got mad when I asked to call her. He finally confessed after about an hour and a half that it was this guy's gf who saw him and she thought she liked him so he talked to her 3 times. The thing that makes me sick is that the same week he talked to her, we had sex. We got back together so we could start a family, but he keeps lying. He says he won't do it again but I feel like its all too familiar. I didn't break up with him because I want to marry him and have a family with him but I don't know how to trust him again if he keeps lying. He has lied more than 5 times but this has been the biggest. I told him I would stay with him and next time that would be it but I don't know how to believe him anymore. I feel like an idiot for staying with him but I'm not ready to give up yet.

thank you so much..I think you have been the most helpful person that has ever posted a reply to any of my questions. Everytime I post somewhere someone gets cocky with me or something but you were so nice about it. Well a little update..I talked to him again and told him I would try to trust him but it would take a little bit and I would like it if he took me with him to places at least once just to see what he does there and to be able to feel more comfortable about him being there alone. Well apparently I changed his mind in a matter of like 2 hours and he doesn't know if he wants to get back together now. I'm putting so much effort into this relationship and if he doesn't want to put effort into it as well then it's really not worth it. If I'm willing to work on my trust issues then he has to work on letting me back in his life and if he doesn't want to do that it's not worth it. I really thought I would marry this guy but I'm young and I know eventually I can find someone else. Thank you so much for your help though..I am very grateful.

My boyfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago mainly because he felt like we were married. We were supposed to move in together last week and he just totally broke up with me 2 weeks before. He said he wasn't able to tell me that he wasn't ready and it all just hit him and he left. Now he wants to get back with me but I don't know if I can trust him. I had some trust issues before probably because my first boyfriend cheated on me and my dad cheated on my mom. When we were broken up he went down the shore and told me he didn't meet any girls and then I heard one in the backround and apparently he did meet girls but didn't hook up with any of them. I believe that he has been faithful but I'm very over-protective and I always feel like I have to be with him to know if he is with other girls. He also met one of the girls I went to school with while we were going out and just didn't tell me because he thought I would get mad. I really want to get back with him cause I was with him for a year and a half and I'm not ready to let go but I just don't know how to trust him. I'm also not very trusting of people who are drunk cause I met him when he was drunk and he was all over me. So if he was like that when I met him then how do I know that he isn't like that with other girls. He says it is because he wasn't with anyone when he met me and now he wouldn't be like that cause he would be with me. I just don't know how to trust him and how to let him go hang out with his friends by himself. He also still wants to go down the shore every weekend and I have no idea who these girls are that he hangs out with so I can't trust them and I don't know how they act. Someone please help!!