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This is a little off topic, but if someone who is gay is flirting STRONGLY with me, how do i tell him to go away? (I've tried saying it, but he dosen't listen. He knows i'm straight too.) I've tried telling him "no" for months, but i'm getting to the end of my teather....

I'm 6'1, and must radiate somthing. I have decent dress sense (i have been told) and am well built, and I dont think i'm too harsh on the eye. Mostly, the only people attracted to me are gay people. Which, while flattering, isn't really much help. WOMEN DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. Be yourself dude, and that's probebly more attractive than any show you can put on.

Thanks for your help, how did your friends react to it? Did your parents not approving put strain on it?

we're both at school- and next year when I go to uni I will still be living at home- Auckland University isn't that far from my house. It's not long distance either.

Met this girl, she's hot, very intelligent, mature, blah blah blah. This isn't about the law. It's about culture- my mates will hastle the hell out of me, but I don't want to give her up for such a stupid reason. She is my little brothers age and (15 in november) and i am 18 in january. - How do I tell my parents? they are very old fassioned in this area. Should I just tell them to get over it? - What about her parents? - How will it effect her? - Should I keep it secret then? I dont want to, she's great fun and I think would get on well with my family and friends. I hate the idea of it being secret but then the harrasment from peers may be too much.