cantergrl4

learning from experience, your kinda damned if u do, damned if u dont.... keeping your feelings in trying to 'deal' w/ the situation is just gonna cause u stress and worry -and is not worth the heartache but nagging and showing you are uncomfortable w/ the situation will just give you guys something to argue about-and prob push him away but u have to ask yourself, is it really worth it-all the uneasyness this is bringing u... in my past experience..my (ex)boyfriend was 'just friends' w/ his 'so-called horrible ex' of 9 yrs. it made me very jealous. i would let him know when it bothered me-and i probably looked completely insecure-but i wasnt cool w/ it. i kinda gave him an altimatum (sp??) her or me..... needless to say, things just went downhill- we broke up and they got back together for bout 2 weeks. it sucked big time the way things turned out b/c we had a GREAT relationship before that came about...but i try to remind myself everything happens for a reason u have to think of yourself in this situation...dont comprimize your happiness,if you're not comfortable w/ the situation. there is NO reason he needs to be friends w/ his ex-unless they have kids. not saying they need to be enemies, but they dont need to go out of their way. good luck!

learning from experience, your kinda damned if u do, damned if u dont.... keeping your feelings in trying to 'deal' w/ the situation is just gonna cause u stress and worry -and is not worth the heartache but nagging and showing you are uncomfortable w/ the situation will just give you guys something to argue about-and prob push him away but u have to ask yourself, is it really worth it-all the uneasyness this is bringing u... in my past experience..my (ex)boyfriend was 'just friends' w/ his 'so-called horrible ex' of 9 yrs. it made me very jealous. i would let him know when it bothered me-and i probably looked completely insecure-but i wasnt cool w/ it. i kinda gave him an altimatum (sp??) her or me..... needless to say, things just went downhill- we broke up and they got back together for bout 2 weeks. it sucked big time the way things turned out b/c we had a GREAT relationship before that came about...but i try to remind myself everything happens for a reason u have to think of yourself in this situation...dont comprimize your happiness,if you're not comfortable w/ the situation. there is NO reason he needs to be friends w/ his ex-unless they have kids. not saying they need to be enemies, but they dont need to go out of their way. good luck w/ it!