Kyria

yeah I know, I am myself around him, but myself is rather awkward. also guys theoretically should have matured by the time they get to 17/18, it's a little different from when you're 12... thanks though, I've taken your advice on board

I don't think he will though, he is really shy, even more so than me. i guess I just wanna talk to him, but I'm not sure how 'cos he's always with his d*ckhead friends. I rarely ever see him on his own, and if i do I don't knwo what to say... It's just so frustrating 'cos I do really really like him.

Hiya. Ok, there is this guy that I REALLY like. We started talking to one another last year on AIM, and when we found out we liked each other, we stopped talking at school, we still talked on line though and had really great conversations. At school it was really awkward, and all his friends took the piss, but eventually we were at a party together, and we spent ages just talking n stuff, so I ended up asking him on a date. We went to the cinema and I had a really good time, it was a little awkward at times, but we're both shy so only as much as you'd expect. Then it all started to go a bit wrong. He went on holiday so I didn't get a chance to see him for ages, then I didn't ask him out cos the only chances I got were on AIM. We didnt see each other all summer, and we only taked on AIM. Since we've been back at school he's just stopped talking to me, even online. I catch him looking at me sometimes, and I do think he still likes me, but I don't know what to do. I tried to start a conversation with him a little while ago, but it never got past the 'how are you's. It's really tough 'cos all his friends are still continually taking the piss. I really like him and I don't know what to do. Advice please. Thanks

I'm not incredibly experienced in relationships, but I'll give you my thoughts anyways... It seems to me as if he likes you, but wants to take things a little slowly, because of your history with his mates, and the fact that he's just come out of a relationship. I don't think the fact that you slept with his mate has put him off, because as I understand it, he was aware of it the night you first kissed? Because your relationships with both of his friends were quite brief, he may be cautious with you, as perhaps he doesn't want your relationship to go down the same ally...? Hmm... I dunno, it's a bit of a confusing one really, hope I've offered some small degree of help... Anyways, good luck & I hope it all sorts itself out... Kyria x x

lol, sorry about that. That's the second time I've had to change it, it keeps deleting my sex and birthdate.... Crazy. Thanx for the advice, I know it'll be harder, but at least everything will seem a little more sincere. Kyria xx

Hey, thanks for all your help, its made me realise that I might as well just go for it, I've got nothing to lose really. I'm gonna try talk to him about it online, and next time I see him I'm just gonna go talk to him, or try to at least .... All of your advice was really good, and I'm pleased that I'm at least not the only one to have gone through this type of thing... THANKYOU!! Kyria xx

Ok, this is a little complicated, but I really need some advice. I've fancied this guy for about a year now. We used to get on quite well, and there was always a bit of flirting between us. However, about a year ago we were talking online and we admitted that we fancied each other. Since then we've barely spoken, just the occasional embarrassed 'hi' in the school corridor. We speak all the time online, and I know that until quite recently he still liked me. I really really want to ask him out, but I don't have the confidence, and neither does he. I know that if I could just get into a conversation with him, everything would work out alright... The thing is that whenever I go near him, he ignores me, moves away, or starts talking to someone else. That makes it really hard for me, because everyone knows that I fancy him, so it would be embarrassing making a big deal about talking to him, or tapping him on the shoulder or something infront of his mates. There is a prom coming up soon, and I hope that we can maybe get together then, but I'm afraid that it'll end up just like it is at school... Does anyone have any advice whatsoever? I just need to know what to do... I don't even know if it's possible to have a relationship with him now, after the way we've both been acting. I don't know how to get the ball rolling, I would have the confidence if it weren't for all this ignoring each other that's been hapenning... but now I just don't know what to do. Should I try talk to him at school, or wait until our prom?? Thanks very much for any advice you have, and for taking time to read this! Kyria xx