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im actually giving my baby up for adoption and finishing high school. so ive definetly thought about my future already and im confident in it. also this guy knows that have an adoption plan. i cant believe i forgot to put that in there. anywayz if anyone has any advice for me please post it. thanx -vanessa [/code]

well even though he is your sister's past you shouldn't mess with him. there are so many other guys out there that havent dated your sister.. go find one of them. sister's should never date guys who their sisters went out with. those guys are just off limits. and put yourself in your sister's place would you like your sister to date one of your exes??? anywayz i know it's hard to get over a guy, but you could ruin your relationship or put a dent in your relationship with your sister, who will always be your sister. there is no guarantee that this guy will always be in your life so why mess anything up with your sister... -Vanessa

i have a really big problem....There's this guy who i think im like in love with. let me begin by telling you about our history. we've been friends for about 2 years up until like a month ago. a year ago when i was in 10th grade we dated for about 4 months and then just decided to be friends. well a month ago he stopped calling me. i havent really talked to him since. he's always liked me alot, but now i just don't know what happened. I never really liked him in that way and I saw him only as a friend but now I think im like in love with him. I don't even know why. A month before we stopped talking to eachother we had sex twice and I think that might have made me feel that way for him. well i'm 8 months pregnant right now and im 16 years old (He's not the father of my child by the way ) i think that might be a reason why he's stopped calling, but he told me that that didn't affect our friendship. Anyways I think because him and I did it I started to like him. Well I thought he was in love with me too because of the way he started acting. Since we did it he changed a lot .. well both of us acted real different. Anyways Im having so much trouble not thinking about him.. he's on my mind all the time and I cant help it. What do you think I should do???? -Vanessa