seekingwiseadvice

Perhaps by not communicating with your ex you will be able to put distance between you and your ex. When no words are exchanged between the two of you then no "rumours" will be said. Though it is difficult, no contact is a healing experience.

I am unsure of what to do. I have been single for 9 months, had met a couple of women but no real chemistry. Some friends have asked me if I have seen or spoken to my ex(hence the nine months) I have not seen or heard from her since dec. Do i contact her or just continue forging forward?Is it possible that after that much time apart, things may be different? I have been missing her as of late, yet have really moved on and am now uncertain that perhaps things ended to hastely. Advice welcome