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sebaot

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  1. First, we've all done that once or twice in life. The best thing is to not excuse yourself to her over what happened since you don't know each other very well so she might think you're psycho. The best thing is to say HI with a SMILE (very important!) and ask her how she's doing. Hey, don't be discouraged if she kinda looks down when you two meet. I think it's a good sign. When I see somebody I don't know and would like to know, I get quick eye-contact and I send the first smile and often they look down, and that's when I say my hi and how you doing. Do the same with this girl. Just relax and approach her. Secondly, if she moves to sit by you, she's not weirded out by you. If she was, she'd see where you were and sit far, far away. Maybe she even flipped her hair a bit there in front of you? That's always a good sign. Finally, don't call her. Feel out the situation like I said instead. THEN you can get permission to call. For now, just be polite and charming.
  2. Oh, I should say the e-mail address is good because you can talk on a totally different level without any of the environmental stress, thus I keep my game to a minimum in public like gym/work/store because I can gain leverage over e-mail. Once there, you're entitled to longer and more meaningful conversations in person.
  3. During an orgasm, nerves pull together around the spine and stuff. I think sneezing actually reminds of an orgasm now that you say it. Yes, I'm a guy.
  4. Well, you can pass her by at school and if she looks at you, say "hi" with a smile and flank in s "you look great/fine today!" or "Hi, Sandy, and you look great today!" You know, it's hard to script, but say it in some way that's natural to you so it doesn't sound stalkish, not-you, or scripted ... do it in a straightforward and happy way. It's important to say it passing-by, or just smile and keep a quick conversation with her for like 10 seconds. Otherwise, she might get uncomfortable and feel like she needs to respond. It's very possible she's not been in a situation like that before. I found that this works pretty well in those situations, provided that you're a kinda laid back and relaxed person. I'm not the kinda guy that meets people out in bars and stuff, so I know what you mean about talking to somebody in school. Looking for conversational topics, I'm not sure what's good and bad. It depends on the person. About her friends, do give them smiles and acknowledgement also. Involve them in conversations. Because when you do that, her friends will start talking to her about you, and that's a good thing. They'll say stuff like you're nice and they'd date you and so, and that leads to her wanting to see you a bit more. Again, start off with some of those quick compliments. Pass her by and say some so she feels good. And finally, do get her e-mail address FROM HER ... ask her if she's got e-mail and what it is and stuff. I used that trick in school once that is was for some "homework assignments", but nowadays I'm more straightforward. You know, "I like talking to you, you're a real interesting person!" and get it through those channels. No hidden agendas. It's "I want you get to know you" and no beating around the bush. NOTE: do compliment on personality and intelligence. And ... patience is a virtue.
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