JoeT

ummm this is very tough for me because i dont know what to tell her or how to start it..basically i just want he rto know that i love her and that i think of her everyday, that shes the only one i wanna be with...would this be smart to include in the card??? just so she knows...

ive written in this forum a couple times about my sistuation....to sum it up, i was with her 3 years, i cheated on her, got back together for a year, in love agian, she went on to school and that was last september...last time i spoke to her was xmas....now almost in sept. its her birthday and one of my best friends (a girl) is insisting and begging me to send her a card because she knows how much i love her....so my question is...what do i say in this card, what do i write, theres soooo much i wanna say to her to have her come back but i guess i cant because im sending her an I MISS YOU/HAPPY BDAY card...and i dont want to sound too desperate because i heard that would turn off a women anyway if someone knows what i should write please help me out...thanks!!! joe

@SwingFox because I love her so much and since we havent talked for so long, im assuming she would feel kind of stupid picking up the phone to call...I know I would if I broke it off with somone and lets so much time go by!!!

i was just wondering if a women ever forgets her first love, her first everything? do various things like a song, a movie, a club, a place, a picture, anything remind a woman of in this case (me)?

does a 19 year old good looking girl away at college really know what she wants nowadays or is just at the age where she wants to be free and enjoy her life even after breaking up with a guy shes been wih since 16?

is there someone that I could talk to on a personal level I guess??? I'm having trouble dealing with things although it's been 7-8 months now. im 23, although I should be getting over things easier at this age its been hell for me. if anyone is experienced with actually losing a person they know they love please email me!! email removed