My mate recently disclosed to me that he has harbored doubts about the relationship for the past year. Until today I presumed we had a solid relationship much like any other functional relationship (no cheating, abuse, etc). However, he is torn between experiencing a single lifestyle (I assume due in part to his new male friendships) and investing in the relationship long-term.
This is our first and only long-term relationship and I am fairly certain that I want to be committed to him.
So how can you not be certain after eight years? Has he loved me at all?
I also suspect that he may not be happy with himself as he turned 29 two weeks ago and in reflecting on his life, he expressed to me that he has regrets on not accomplishing various things earlier on in his life.
I certainly understand how he feels but it is very possible to have a relationship and experience personal growth. Or is it?