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thanks so much everyone! these ideas rock! I appreciate it so much!

thanks! these are all great suggestions!

thanks so much!! you're going to miss her? why? (if you don't mind my asking...)

thanks! any one else have tips/ideas/techniques etc. I want to be surprising, and show him I'm not as shy as I used to be...

that's awsome! thank you!

alright, I know this is a topic that is discussed a lot... but my boyfriend and I have recently started "doing more" and I'm looking for some ideas. we were both kind of shy I guess, and I think we've pretty much gotten past that now. I heard that a lot of guys like having their necks kissed while making out. anything else I can do while we're making out?

thanks!!

thanks a lot! I'm hoping for more also! I'll keep you posted tho!

thanks! those situations are never good!

Katie, this is a really hard thing to get over. but it doesn't mean that you can't! being shy does have it's advantages sometimes, but most of the time, it's just plain annoying! (trust me, I've been there). my boyfriend sometimes gets annoyed with me when I have nothing to say. he tells me just to talk about anything, and that it doesn't matter if it's about something stupid, like about my hair or anything! so if he really cares about, he won't care what you talk about, as long as you talk! it's not too hard! hope I helped a bit! Lissa

that's pretty good advice! but sometimes guys like to be the ones who receive the surprise kisses and such. makes them feel like they don't have to do anything... or so I've been told in the past...

I stare at the phone… waiting… waiting for it to ring… to hear your voice… but no… just silence… the clock ticks quietly… then louder and louder… my heart pounds in my chest… louder and louder… I am completely alone… the silence is driving me crazy… you told me I'd never be alone… so why am I… you promised you'd never let me go… so why do I sit by the phone… alone… going mad from the sound of the deafening silence…

omg, I have the exact same problem! and it's not that your uncomfortable with him, or that you don't trust him. it's just... well I don't really know what it is! but it really sucks! just seriously if you feel like doing something, go for it! don't hold back. you can be yourself and still please him, and when you know that it's making him happy, it makes you feel so much more comfortable! so that's my "great advice". haha, hope I helped a bit... I'd love to hear some other peoples ideas tho!

thanks all of you for the advice! I guess I just think to much about things that "could go wrong" instead of the things that "could go right"! gotta stop that! but thanks again!

okay, so my bf and I are getting more physical, and he said it would be really nice if I layed on top of him while we were making out. I've never attempted this, and I was wondering how to go about it without "hurting him" and what "position" would be best. any advice is greatly appreciated! thanks!