i disagree. (i dont care if the word "flicking" sounds innocent, it isnt.) i think that what went on IS affection, especially, when flirting. its basically the tiniest form of affection you can show to someone thats in a relationship, and vice versa.(if youre the one in it) i think its bad news all together, especially if SHE thinks its okay. im telling you, ive witnessed this hands on.